Well, it wasn’t fire and brimstone, and I did not say everyone needs to be treated (or join AA) or even avoid alcohol. What I said was that if you drink alcohol for reasons that are different from your reasons for drinking lemonade, the difference is the nature of the drink. Alcohol is a drug. It is a drug the first time you use it, and every time you use it. Taking drugs for recreational reasons is addictive behavior. Every person who exhibits addictive behavior is not dysfunctional. But they are exhibiting addictive behavior.
I don’t condemn anyone for drinking. I don’t think it matters much if I do, or not, but I don’t. Alcoholism is not a problem for a lot of people. But it is a matter of degree, not a matter of actual definition. No one has a problem if you drink coffee every day. Coffee every day can kill you. But no one attends coffee anonymous meetings. There are no support groups, or on line discussion groups about coffee drinking. Nor for lemonade, or apple juice, or any of a thousand other beverages. Alcohol is unique in this.
Pretending that there is some “safe” level of use is ignoring the real nature of it. Can you drink without suffering from your addiction? Yes, you certainly can. Lots of people do. That doesn’t change the fact that the metabolic processes that make you become dependant on alcohol do take place with even moderate or infrequent use of alcohol. Now, that isn’t a condemnation of drinking for the buzz. Using some drugs “just for the buzz” will get you prison time. Alcohol has a better lobby, so it’s legal. Everyone makes choices. But thinking that your choice trumps chemistry is ignoring the truth. I drink, every now and then. But I don’t try to convince myself that my drinking is somehow better than someone else’s drinking. I don’t have a problem with addiction to alcohol. But the process of chemical dependence happens every time I drink. Once upon a time, that happened fairly often. Now it only happens a couple of times a year. I don’t have a problem with drinking. I don’t need to feel that I am not becoming addicted, or that I am somehow better than an alcoholic is. I drink because I like the taste. If I don’t like the taste, I stop drinking. So, in that respect, I am different from some alcoholics, since they drink in spite of the taste. But we both experience the same chemical effects, which include physical accommodation by our bodies to the use of a drug.
The only reason it’s a problem is that the judgement of how much is too much, and when to stop is being made by someone who is drunk, or at least intoxicated. Habit is both a repetitive learning method, and a name for addiction. Which one is the better definition is pretty unimportant, if you have a habit of using an addictive drug. If you drink by habit, or by social pressure, or whatever other reason that would sound ridiculous if applied to Kool Ade, then it’s about the drug, not the drink.
I think there is a strong feeling that I am condemning everyone that ever drinks. I am not. But I think it is a foolish thing to think that the addictive effects of alcohol are only present in the case of frequent or excessive drinking. I think it happens one drink at a time. I think it happens to everyone. I think a lot of people don’t have a problem with it. I think a lot of people don’t recognize it as a problem, and yet do have a problem.
Tris
By the way, Tris is a guy.