Ask her to kiss you without really responding. It doesn’t make for a pleasant kiss really, but it may give you an idea of the kind of pressure/movement/moisture she likes.
Try kissing upside down… a whole new experience. (A nice one, IMHO.)
Try this advanced kissing technique:
Facing her, gently touch the fingers of both your hands behind her neck, with your thumbs touching along the sides of her lower jaw. Lightly touch your lips to hers. In a very gentle, lightly teasing manner, slowly trace the tip of your tongue anti-clockwise just inside her parted lips, circling once around.
Then, GENTLY (but confidently) suck on her right outer edge of her lower lip, tugging outward, while GENTLY pulling her lower lip outward to the opposite direction with the thumb and index finger of your right hand. You should only do this for about 1.5 - 2 seconds in a sort of pull-ease the tension-and pull again manner. GENTLY!
Done properly, this is a highly sensual technique… and has always given amazing results. Like… OoooohhhHHHHHH! and shiver OMG!
The combination of tongue circling with lip-sucking and gentle pulling outward with the fingers gives a highly pleasing sensation. For both of you.
Also, I might add, when your woman is very turned on, kiss her, gently clasping the back of her neck with one hand and simultaneously gently but firmly squeezing a buttock.
Fear and uncertainty is transmitted through your body and she will intuitively feel it.
To achieve mutually enjoyable results, the overarching principle is to be extremely “present”. If you’re ever in doubt, slow down, breathe and FEEL. Ask her what would feel good for her. She’ll appreciate that you’re taking the time to learn.
Women: same technique works well with guys, too.
Never before have I revealed the secret to my “super kiss” – until now. 
Since I’m married now I have no reason to keep this a secret.
So here goes:
Hug your partner lightly, gently rub her back, pull back from the hug and run your hands over her hair, and gently down her shoulders. Maybe run your hands gently over her cheeks and down her neck. All of this should be done gently and slowly.
Now move in for the kiss VERY SLOWLY. Your goal is to touch her lips with yours as lightly as possible. If she moves to meet you too strongly, pull back a little, then start moving in slowly again. You may have to do this several times, and that’s good – it increases the antici …pation. 
When your lips finally do meet hers, your entire focus should be on feeling her lips with yours as lightly as possible. You are focused COMPLETELY on right here, right now, and keeping your lips touching as softly as possible keeps your attention on that kiss.
Move your lips VERY slowly against hers, still maintaining your focus on touching as lightly as possible. If she ever tries to kiss you harder, pull back and come in as softly as you can again.
This kiss takes almost no tongue. It’s very hard to use your tongue AND to keep your lips touching as softly as possible.
She’ll get the idea pretty quickly about the softest possible kiss and will join you in the effort. The effort of BOTH of you trying to keep the touch as light as possible intensifies the connection. Remember, ALL of your attention should be on the feel of her lips against yours.
When you feel it’s time to break the kiss, move away VERY slowly so that she’s not sure if you’re going to come back in or not.
For this to work, you have to put yourself COMPLETELY in the kiss. Don’t move your hands because this distracts you from your goal of touching your lips to hers as lightly as a butterfly.
If, when the kiss is done, you both don’t feel like “… whew…”, then you haven’t done it right.
What else can I say about it? The goal is to put your self, your love, and your attention completely at the point where your two (four?) lips meet. Your goal is a connection with her, not “something you’re doing to her”.
J.