Alright, women of the SDMB, I got a problem and I need your help.
I’m a bad kisser.
There, I’ve said it.
Okay, so I don’t know if I’m a bad kisser or not. But I think I am. And it’s holding me back.
Here’s the real problem. I went to a small HS with a very limited dating pool. I was also kind of an outcast for most of the time. Because of this, I have NO experience with the, er, finer arts. I’ve only kissed two girls, and both times, I’ve been drunk. Never kissed anyone sober, not a real kiss, anyway. Friend/relative stuff, yeah. But not a real, passionate, knock your socks off type kiss. So I have no technique, and this really holds me back. I’m now in college, and there are lots of girls who I could get with, but I’m so self concious of my technique (or lack thereof) that I can’t bring myself to go for it.
I’ve told you all about this russian girl I have a thing for, and I think we’re hitting it off really well. I’ve had chance after chance to kiss her, and I’m pretty sure she wants me to, but I’m afraid to do it. She’s alot more, er, experienced than I, and I’m afraid of what would happen if I tried something. It’s not like I can just sit down and explain the problem to her, what if I’m getting the wrong signal and she’s like, “uh, thanks for sharing, but I should care why?”
So, ladies, should I just bite my lip and go in for it, and damn the consequences, or what? This is really quite embarrassing to talk about in real life, so it’s not like I can just ask one of my good female friends for some help.
Also ladies, PS, what would YOU do in her situation? If this guy you liked kissed you, and he was terrible, what would you do?
–Tim