I don’t lie about it. I just try to be discreet. 
He’d join the local swim team?
I was raised by a strong woman, I married a strong woman, and our daughters grew to be strong women. I like to look at pretty women and I believe I avoid being some sort of creep about it.
I was hoping the gayity thread would die a quick and natural death. Now that moron has given it an afterlife. 
So it is your “opinion” that this
wasn’t about openly ogling women and letting your gaze sink to their chests. Gotcha.
Regards,
Shodan
Jesus, that post was about respecting women -and if you don’t have the discipline to keep your eyes up here, buddy, at least don’t do it openly, put on some sunglasses so that you aren’t openly disrespecting the woman you are speaking with.
The problem with this kind of situation is where to begin, isn’t it? Shaving off the surface ignorance doesn’t really do anything, because it has no lasting impact at the roots, and more just grows back. Attacking the symptoms is just polishing a turd. It feels like you have to start from very basic assumptions, if you know what I mean? You just want to take the guy back to kindergarten, only in a healthier environment than the first time around, and start socializing him all over again, from scratch.
Or maybe it’s more that our pittee hasn’t ever progressed much beyond kindergarten. At least that’s the feeling one gets, isn’t it? I’ve noticed that every time the poster in question shows up in a thread, the tone of the entire conversation shifts to the almost childlike, because the stupid operates at such a fundamental, perhaps even infantile level. Then our pittee has to be brought up to speed before such a thread can even return to normal, adult levels of stupid. And I’m noticing posters getting really frustrated by it. If you listen for it, you can hear an audible sigh go through such a thread, from all participants, because everyone knows that there’s some heavy lifting coming up.
I mean, look at the hijack mentioned in the OP. Yes, it was a hijack, but it wasn’t your average hijack. Sometimes you might get a thread on an unrelated subject hijacked by blatant homophobia. But the thread in question was already *about *blatant homophobia. It was just that it was about adult-level homophobia, with at least a hint of subtlety to it. Then the pittee shows up, like some overgrown toddler, with only a basic understanding even of that. It’s like he even has to be rushed through several of classes in how to be a grown-up homophobe, before the conversation can even continue.
And Urbanredneck said the same thing. But it is iiandyiii’s “opinion” that wearing sunglasses is not part of “don’t get caught looking”.
Regards,
Shodan
And UR said this as well:
Not exactly “not getting caught looking,” now is it? Nor is it acting respectful to a woman. But that’s just the way men’s brains work. We ladies should just accept that, and stammer back “you’re welcome.”
I should post a photo of myself in a low-cut top showing my DD’s. I’ll bet it would make the conservative trolls fall into an infinite loop until their heads explode.
“OMG boobs…but they’re on a transgender woman…but they aren’t women…but I’m being turned on by a guy with boobs…but OMG BOOBs!..but they’re on a…”
I’d say they can be quite cute and delightful but I’ve never understood the central obsession. I may or may not be wired differently than conventional guys but I do have the visual attraction receptors.
I read that as someone getting caught, true, but ISTM that the “thank you” was for having a woman pick something up for him. The “Thank you!” was both for the assistance, and the peek. But I agree the second was (in the sense I think you are using) not respectful.
Regards,
Shodan
That was not the main point, no. The main point was that feminists care about actions, not thoughts – treating people with decency and respect is of primary import, and in my opinion UR made several posts in the thread referenced in the OP in which he doesn’t seem to understand this.
Snark snark snark.
Snark.
Snark,
Snark.
Urbanredneck’s Neanderthal dumbfuckery never fails to amaze me:
I touched a nurse’s boobie! Should I report her for making me do that? (Spoiler alert: he reported her.)
Why can’t “scientists” stop being dicks and accept the supernatural? (He also claims to be a former high school science teacher who believes that “devine [sic] intervention in nature” should be studied.)
I would never cheat on a spouse. It’s so expensive!
I taught a Hindu kid once. Or maybe Muslim. They’re the same thing, right?
In my town we have this wonderful thing called a “public library.” Do other places have them?
I notice he never answered my question about how it’s possible for men to function as lifeguards at nude beaches or bouncers at strip clubs if the male brain is hardwired to completely short-circuit upon seeing boobs. Or how hunter-gatherer societies where women don’t wear tops manage to exist, since the men should be unable to function at all. Sure, most heterosexual men (and a good number of gay men and het women, and most gay women) like boobs, but his idea that it’s impossible for a man to function normally after a glimpse of cleavage is absurd.
I heartily endorse this product and/or service. I don’t think it will actually break the trolls, I’m just in favor of it.
Double D’s you say? It is for science.
Pics or it didn’t happen.
Regards,
Shodan
Urbandumbfuck’s soul brother is our other favorite ignorant redneck, aceplace.
Separated at birth, perhaps? We should ask Urbanredneck if it’s a boner-killer when a hot girl is bowlegged.
Boobs are quite lovely! And there’s such variation. They come in multiple shapes, and all kinds of sizes. They all have their individual quirks. You get small ones, big ones, perky ones, floppy ones. And you can’t always tell before you unwrap them. A bra is like a box of chocolates, you know? You never know (exactly) what you’re going to get. It’s part of the excitement, isn’t it? It’s like a surprise Christmas present. They’re all good, though, in my experience.
But there are two kinds of boobophiles, right? Well, there are two kinds of eroticism, in general, I suppose. Only one of which is actually about eroticism at all. The other kind is about power. In terms of boobs, the latter seems to manifest in a weird obsession with giantism. The bigger, the better. And small, it seems, is right out. As already quoted in the OP:
This isn’t about liking boobs at all. It’s about a man wanting to control the very shape and purpose of the female form. And a normal-sized boob is seemingly never enough, is it? At least until we reach the top of the scale. Boobs must be huge, or they are insufficient. So, the purpose of this kind of crap is clear enough: For one thing, women must know that they exist only to be ogled by men. For another thing, they must never be allowed to feel that they are good enough. They’re not only ogled, they are judged, and always told that they are insufficient. This has nothing to do with eroticism. As I said, it’s only about power. A woman can’t even be allowed to feel that she has the ownership of her own boobs. They clearly belong to the ogling man.
And this particular brand of crap can kindly go fuck right off, so I can go back to enjoying boobs like a regular person does, without being grouped in with jackasses like our pittee for doing so. And I swear to God. true story: On more than one occasion, I’ve had to explain to ladies that, yes, I do find their breasts attractive and aesthetically pleasing, even if they’re not zeppelin-sized. I should not have to flipping explain that. The worst part? I’m not sure if these ladies ever really believed me. I suspect that they still think that I’m some kind of size-fetishist, but that I won’t admit it, because I’m trying to be PC. I can only conclude that this kind of crap actually gets into people’s heads. There are actually ladies out there who are unhappy with their perfectly wonderful boobs because of this garbage. And I can’t for the life of me imagine a stupider waste of those ladies’ time than for them to be spending it worrying about that.
And I’ve pretty much had enough of it. I want to be ably to have nice things, without asshats like our pittee screwing it up for everyone.