Hey, wait a minute, I'm gay!

Well, not really. Needed a grabber to draw you in, though.

What I’m interested in hearing is the stories of people who didn’t realize they were attracted to members of the same sex until after the age of 25. I’m interested in what made you realize you were, what you did about the feelings, and how you feel about it now.

Thanks in advance for sharing!

I’m not gay because I enjoy men. Often. However when I was 30-ish I was seduced by my seriously hot neighbor. She was a lot rough in her attentions, but it definately made me rethink my atractions. It took me a few months to digest these feelings and dive in with another female and I haven’t looked back. Women are fun. Soft and lush, they smell nice and I crave the taste of a woman now and again. Women are like a minor addiction for me, but I still reserve the right to be choosy.
The feelings…well I was happily married at the time and not about to boot my love, best friend and father of my children in order to explore this new obsession. I talked him into “swinging” so I could enjoy other women. We worked through the jealousy thing, now it’s just nice to see the other enjoying themelves.
How I feel about it now…discovering what makes an individual woman writhe and moan is FUN! It’s about sex, and I enjoy it. It’s not something I want to do everyday or een every week, but a friend I can go down on occasionaly is a GOOD friend indeed.
[sub]I have been drinking, so please forgive any spelling/grammactical errors or leaps of phrase on those grounds[/sub]