Ho Fucking Ho - December Mini-Rants

After the initial sunset round of fireworks, things calmed down. I kept checking for the cats and finally B.J. showed up. I put down some food to distract her and managed to grab her and bring her in. (She’s very skittish - I only get one chance.) During the worst of the noise later, I looked in on her and she was pretty calm. She did better than Seven, who has been living inside for two years. She stayed under a chair for about an hour. My other two cats have been inside long enough that they understand they are safe.

I went out about 3:00 a.m. and Buddy was in his shelter. I fed him and he seemed o.k. after his horrible run-in with the dogs and the insane amount of noise. Thankfully, the dogs have moved on or gone home. I was going to put B.J. back out but she won’t let me near her. She has major trust issues so I’ll let her be for now.

Excellent !
Good for you.

Updating-okay, tomorrow I am telling him I am staying the night at my place cause he certainly wants me to. I will take my important stuff, then just stay where I am. I ignored red flags a while because I don’t like to give up.

I was wondering how things went, and it appears that they didn’t. I don’t like to meddle, but if you’re going to take your stuff out of his place – and it sure sounds like you definitely should – I would take everything, not just “important stuff”. Maybe I’m overreacting but I would also take a friend along in case things got ugly, as this guy sounds like a real piece of work.

Theres not much. I meant leave an old t shirt. He won’t realize Im gone til after I’ve left.

Smart move.

All clear!:+1:

:+1:

Hooray for you!!

He had no clue. This was overdue by 2 weeks. It was a mistake to live with him for two months. He wanted to come along on my interviews and dr. Appointments.
He said few weeks ago Zip it or we’re through. His mom gave me a nice sweater for xmas and he said if we break up, hes keeping the sweater! Note-I am wearing the sweater.

Good to hear! I admit that I was a little concerned about how this might play out. :slight_smile:

I’m just back from the tire place and I have to give you kudos for a spot-on diagnosis, although I have no recollection of hitting potholes or curbs or anything like that recently. But the tire in question was indeed leaking from around the rim. Furthermore, they noticed the tire on the other side was a little underinflated so I said what the hell, check that one, too. It had a very, very slow leak, also from the rim, but so slow that I had not inflated it since I got the tires about 18 months ago.

The good news is that neither tires nor rims were damaged and didn’t need replacement. They cleaned everything up, installed new valve stems, re-balanced, and everything is fine.

Since the wheels had also been purchased from that same place, they were able to replace the little cover over the wheel nuts that had been broken and lost by the fucking incompetents at Canadian Tire where – and mark me carefully here – where I will never take my car again, ever. For every one thing they fix, they break at least one other thing. Now my car has proper tires again, is sporting proper wheels all around, and except for the relatively nominal expenditure of $$$ is a good start to the new year.

I love this independent tire place. I gave the service guy the key and had barely finished describing the problem when I saw the car being driven into the garage. I was out of there in maybe 30 or 40 minutes. And they were moderately busy, too.

Hooray for a real fix. That’s always satisfying even if it costs more than one might wish!

I recall making this decision at a Canadian Tire the last time I had a flat.

I, too, made that decision a long time ago. But a couple of factors mitigated that absolute avoidance of CT. One was when I still had my previous vehicle which was definitely becoming aged, and it developed a leak in the brake line. My primary concern then was taking to some place – ANY place – that could fix this problem with an absolute minimum of driving distance. And CT was by far the closest.

The other was when I needed a new battery. The premium CT batteries are actually pretty good, and my naive thinking was, “what could possible go wrong – even at CT – with replacing a battery?” Well, it required the removal of a wheel to access the battery, and that was when the fuckers broke my wheel cap. I don’t remember what they broke when they fixed the brake line on the previous car, but I’m sure it was something. It always is.

I used to have a very competent independent mechanic that I knew well who did all of my work. He was both competent and inexpensive and even had a few old but well-maintained cars lying around that he’d give you as free loaners. He ultimately moved his business to a small town where property rentals were cheaper. With the advice of friends I’ve found an alternative that I’m happy with.

I could literally go on at quite some length about Canadian Tire. On one occasion a long time ago I foolishly took my car in to them because one of my headlights was unusually dim. After a bunch of arguments about whether it was the bulb or not and whether I should buy a new bulb just to check it out, the mechanic eventually found that it was a faulty ground wire. He fixed it. But wait, this is Canadian Tire: could it be as simple as “he fixed it”?

Of course not! When I got home, at which point it was near dark, as I drove up close to the garage door, I could see that the “fixed” headlight was pointing wildly upwards, completely misaligned. I tried to realign it using the alignment screw, but it just wasn’t doing anything.

I went back to CT several times, and eventually got into a very unpleasant confrontation with the manager. I gave up and took the car to my trusted mechanic. He told me that the reason the alignment screw wasn’t working is that it had been completely stripped. The only practical fix was to get a complete new headlight assembly. Which I told him to go ahead and do. So that’s another example of something Canadian Tire has broken when I entrusted my car to them.

I’m also really offended by these assholes appropriating the moniker “Canadian”. There’s nothing remotely “Canadian” about “Canadian Tire” except the advertising imagery. I’d be OK if they called themselves “Somalian Tire” or “Total Ripoff Tire”, which is what they actually are.

Awesome!

OMG, you dodged a serious bullet. So glad you are out.

Isn’t it based out of Toronto? Isn’t Toronto still Canada?

I mean in spirit, not geographically. Canadian Tire tries to pretend that they represent Canadian values, but they don’t. Canadian values are the honest and competent tire store I went to today. It’s the honest and competent independent mechanic I use. The entire aura around CT is just anomalous to what I’m used to and expect from a service organization.

In fairness, I’ll say that it may very well vary from one franchise to another, but the various local ones are pretty consistently awful. Interestingly, the local one was very good at one time. The service manager seemed obsessed with quality and with promoting the business. When the shuttle service that took me home when I dropped off my car and picked me up again wasn’t available one day, he gave me his keys and said, here, take my car.

But he soon disappeared. Maybe he got promoted beyond his level of competence per the Peter Principle, but I strongly suspect that he probably quit because of the shitiness of the organization’s management. But at any rate, he’s gone, and the service quality is now as bad as most of the other CT locations, and outside of a dire emergency, my car is not going to be entrusted to any of them.

Ah… In that case I 100% get what you mean.