Well, now, the first question we have to ask is, “What do you mean by ‘the teachings of the Bible’?” Being a book, it in and of itself teaches nothing; what you do with it depends on what degree of authority and certitude you place in its origins.
For some evangelical Christians, there is a belief that the book itself is without error (at least in the original autographs) and that therefore all parts of it are to be given total credence. Precisely what leads them to this conclusion is left vague – the logic is that “it’s God’s Word, and He can preserve it from all error; therefore He must have done so.” It’s interesting to note that Scripture does not claim this of itself. Some Orthodox Jews also believe this of Torah alone, as I understand it.
The rest of us, whether or not we believe in the inspiration of the Bible in any sense, apply to one degree or another the findings of Biblical scholarship, which is a subdiscipline of paleology, the study of ancient manuscripts and what may be learned from them generally.
If one is free of the idolatry surrounding Bible-as-divinely-dictated-and-therefore-agent-of-God, even if one has the utmost respect for it as the record of His doings with humankind, with human authors guided by His Spirit to the extent they would listen to Him, then some obvious conclusions come to light:
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The Bible is clearly the work of a number of authors, of differing styles and interests, with their own pet peeves and idees fixes, carrying an underlying message but with a remarkable amount of accretions overlying that message.
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There is an inherent contradiction between an earlier legislated moral code and a later set of ethical principles replacing them.
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The key point to the latter code lies in total, radical commitment to the love of God as its primary issue, and beyond that in love of all other persons as of one’s own self as the second most important principle. This is illustrated with story after story, and commands to avoid thinking of oneself as better or more righteous than others, to avoid sitting in judgment over others, to give unto others without thought of reward, to treat every other person as though they were God Himself in human form. Details if needed can be found in the Gospels.
Now, in my experience the most common human trait is to try to reduce this sort of thoroughgoing and overwhelming responsibility to an easily-kept set of rules, and then try to find loopholes. That process, the churches over the years have done most efficiently.
“Everybody needs somebody else to look down on.” - Kris Kristofferson
Okay, now let’s look at the question. Is “homosexuality” a sin? Well, it’s a word with a bunch of definitions. Animals generally are incapable of sin (I have my suspicions about cats, but that’s neither here nor there! ;)) so two animals having gay sex are excluded. Two other definitions are self-identification and orientation; they go hand in hand but there are good reasons to distinguish between them. Orientation is, by virtually unanimous testimony of gay people, not a choice. Even honest “ex-gays” admit to being tempted to gay sex – they’re “still gay” in an orientation sense. Identification is a bit slipperier, but I can see no reason why classifying yourself on the basis of your predominant sexual attraction ought to be considered sinful.
That leaves gay sex acts themselves. I want to hold off for a minute on discussing that.
Rock bottom conclusion: if you’re not subject to any gay desires yourself, whether or not homosexuality is a sin is frankly none of your business. Even if it is, it’s not your sin to worry about, and you’re prohibited from judging others. If you are gay, then your job is the same as a straight person’s – love God and love your fellow man to the utmost of your abilities.
Okay. Now let’s look at sex acts generally.
Well, first, if you’ve made a mutual commitment with someone else to a lifelong monogamous relationship, then any sex acts outside that relationship are sinful, by definition, as a breaking of that commitment. And humans are so constructed that they – generally and incompletely – seek to enter into and preserve such a relationship.
Now, to live the best possible life, to love to the fullest, means not settling for less than perfection – and so to a small extent any sex outside such a relationship is sin to a minor degree. Do not hear in that comment the ridiculous call for complete chastity of body and mind until marriage – it’s merely saying that anything short of an ideal is ipso facto falling short of a goal, which is the literal meaning of the word sin.
Can a gay person enter into such a relationship? There is no doubt in my mind that he or she can, and I’ve been blessed to know a few couples who have. With social pressures and the resultant psychological baggage, it’s probably a bit harder for them to form a good marriage than it is for a straight couple, but the potential is there.
And what about singles? The best answer is in the traditional moral-theology definition of lust – which is not sexual desire, but the perversion of that desire for exclusively personal gratification. The seeking out of personal gratification at the expense of another, be that other man, woman, boy, girl, corpse, sheep, or whatever, is the objectification of the other into a sex object, a sex toy for your pleasure, and it’s a sin.
But the seeking out of another for mutual pleasure need not be purely for lust, but the slaking of the desire of both parties. This will ideally be in the context of a relationship that can grow and become permanent, but the world is not so constructed as to always permit one to achieve the ideal.
And what about the Bible Law? Well, take a good look at what Paul has to say – we are free from the Law – not to sin but to show love and grow in grace. Or Jesus – The entire Law and Prophets are summed up in the two commandments: Love God with all that is in you, and love your neighbor as yourself.
The history of all religions seems to be the warfare of God on those who would encrust the new, full, loving, and vibrant life that He offers with a set of law codes, and then claim that He will be angry if you break them.
So, yeah, if you “follow the teachings of the Bible,” homosexuality is indeed a sin – but if you follow the teachings of the God whom the Bible witnesses to, it very well may not be.
What definitely is, is condemning your gay brothers and sisters on the basis of the Bible as a legalistic code – especially if you’ve found your very own loopholes to cover what you know damn well are your own sins.