How could a police officer be this wrong?

I could see if I sought out these illegally parked cars; if I went looking for people parking where they shouldn’t. Then I think some of this criticism might be justified. But I only deal with what I come across in the normal path of my day-to-day life. I don’t “circle the parking lots” or wait around looking for people; if I see a car parked in handicapped parking when I am coming or going to/from a parking lot without a placard or permit, I notice it.

Now I am interpreting this criticism as saying I shouldn’t notice these things. That I should just be willing to turn a blind eye when I see the law being blatantly broken in a way that has a direct impact on my daily life. Now if I notice these things enough, and I notice nothing ever being done, as well as experience the hardships of being deprived of my rightful space because of it, I begin to consider it unacceptable as an aspect of life.

Not only is it law but it’s about common decency. Don’t park in the handicap spots. Is that really a hard thing? Not only is it law but people actually needthose spots and it may be for reasons that have never even occurred to the person breaking the law (such as the extra space for manual and especially electric wheelchairs).

Now when I see this unacceptable thing occurring with regularity everywhere I go, and I also see no one ever doing anything about it, I feel compelled as a human being to address it when I see it. If that means sometimes doing the wrong thing (like blocking the guy in at the gym) or doing the right thing (like calling the police on a habitual offender at the new gym), it always mean doing something. Because apathy is the worst thing. Apathy only breeds more disharmony.

Thanks Magiver I’m giving you a big internet hug right now. Swell guy.

It’s obvious that the OP isn’t after any reasonable view- he just wants toadies to validate his vigilante crusade.

Good luck to you. I’m out of here.

Take your own advice.

Ambivalid, Yes please by all means report handicapped space violators all you want, you should, really. But, find something else to post about, even something else that pisses you off.

Riiiight, because this issue makes up the majority of my posts. Solid advice. Thanks.

What’s the definition of insanity? Doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results.

(my bold)

Originally Posted by Ambivalid
Um, go back and read for comprehension prior to posting next time, kay?

As you can clearly see, CarnalK did in fact suggest that the most a handicapped person would be ‘inconvenienced’ by the illegal parking by someone without a permit would be to “skip going to the store” or having to wheel a bit further (further demonstrating the ignorance that is so prevalent). So again, LD, I beg you to read for comprehension before posting. It prevents embarrassments like this.

You know, just for once I’d like to see you contribute to this board in some way other than jumping on the bandwagon of ‘who’s getting dumped on today’ with your little remarks. Just for once. Surprise me.

You’re not even trying anymore, are you?

If by “ridiculous” you mean “entirely accurate,” then sure.

Right. Ugh, at the risk of being serious, which I HATE, let’s have some sharing time. I don’t fault jamie for being madder than hornets at people parking in handicapped spots because they’re only running in for some smokes, or they don’t feel like walking all the way across the parking lot or whatever. I get it. People who selfishly use these spots are not only assholes for being lazy, but they bring potential legitimate harm to people who aren’t able bodied and can’t just go to level four of the parking ramp and take the stairs down. I get it, and not just in an intellectual “Oh, I understand that this is wrong” sense. My brother is a triple amputee. That’s right – triple. His right arm is the only original limb he has. Holy shit did that open my eyes to a lot, and fuck me if I didn’t shed many, many tears during his illness. I will never understand firsthand what it’s like to be disabled, and am not even going to pretend that I do, but I get it and am entirely sympathetic. This does not excuse trouble-seeking jackassery.

And I remember the very first thread I saw by jamie about the whole airplane thing, and agreed with him wholeheartedly, and was outright upset with other posters for not understanding. Shit, I *still *feel many posters to that thread just didn’t understand, but that aside, I’ve had to draw the unfortunate conclusion that our friend mcgarry is just a jerk. That’s all there is to it, folks. We get his strife. I get his strife. But the Parking Lot Police shtick is tired and it sucks. If my brother started playing mall cop on everyone all the time, I’d be like, “Hey, can you stop being an asshole?” Yes, yes, sure, gays, oppressors, wrongdoers and the like, but when you make it a point to go out of your way sniff out wrongdoers, maybe you need to relax. Look, I’ve dealt with bigotry in my life. Hell, I’m a black person who moved to the Midwest. “Whoa, you are not on the coasts anymore, Toto.”

Anyway, I can come up with a more articulate response later when I’m not 8 drinks in.

The definition of insanity is having to read this goddamn quote over and over again. Can you people PLEASE update your Successories catalogue please?

He’s obviously joined the SDMB. Between this grumpy old man, and your curmudgeonly neighbours, I’m convinced your town is full of Dopers :stuck_out_tongue:

I’m trying to think of a way to phrase this without being a dick… Hmmm, I don’t think I’ll succeed but here goes: Ambi, you’ve been a pretty outspoken defender of all things steroids; don’t you think it’s possible that perhaps they’re affecting your inter-personal interactions? Maybe you don’t realize how aggressive other people perceive you as.

Either that, or everyone in Michigan is a dick except you.

No, you go fucking read for comprehension next time. We’re talking about this situation. He may have said “a store”, but anyone with half a brain could see he was responding to the specific situation that you posted about.

Quit being so fucking coy.

Every now and then I find myself getting pissed about the stupid things people do and dwelling on them. That’s when I realize I need to find something better to do. I honestly do not mean to sound condescending.

I’m wondering if you are involved in any programs as a volunteer or a participant. I know there are Extremity Games for athletes. Google Wheelchair Daze for the company my sweetie works for. They are really active in a lot of programs since that is their business.

This has been my repeated point: I absolutely do not go out of my way to “sniff out wrongdoers”. This shit is what I just face on a daily basis. Jesus Christ. “Trouble-maker”? Aren’t those usually the law-breakers? I am utterly confused as to what I am doing wrong or how I am being an “asshole” in the slightest.

You don’t sound condescending, you sound ignorant.

You dumbass, he was talking about hypotheticals when he said you might even have to “skip going to a store” if a jerk parks illegally in handicap parking.

I’m not the kind to be really blunt with people I don’t know. But apparently being nice about it is a waste of time. I suggest some of the programs that are available that you could involve yourself in as a person in a wheelchair and as an athlete and I am ignorant?

Ok then. Enjoy your life hanging out in parking lots arguing with idiots you can’t control and call it meaningful.

Are we in the pit now? If so, I’ll start calling you names, too.

I’m just glad to know we can all start shifting goal posts in the middle of the conversation. Instead of going to the gym, you were actually pregnant and trying to park at the hospital. The car parked in the handicap space was being driven by Genghis Khan. This is fun!

Of course I can come up with an answer. But what’s the point? Because all you’re going to say is that “I don’t think that makes me a dick.” Your problem seems to be a failure to be able to see how people perceive you and your actions. Trying to put yourself in their position might help you go down that road a bit.