How did dating work prior to the Internet?

Anywhere alcohol is involved.

If you were female, it might very well be. :slight_smile: Of course one’s personal circumstances vary, but my guess is that for most people, college (or school in general) represents the most easily accessible potential dating pool of people. I dated much more after college, but there were far more options available to me during college.

If you’re a single male and not anti-religious, church. Single women everywhere, of every age. And not necessarily bible thumping Jesus freaks, especially if you go to a more liberal denomination. My Episcopal church has plenty of attractive single non-crazy women between 25 and 40.

My wife and I were set up by my roommate’s college buddy’s wife and sister. Wait, I mean, his wife, and also his sister, worked together to set us up. Not that he married his sister.

I don’t know how dating works, now or in the past.

Waaaay back in the past Zog would just club his, um, selection and drag her off by the hair.

Let’s see: met girls in high school and college, of course, including some with whom things only became interesting years later. Met a couple of women through college friends after graduation, met a couple of women, including my wife, in grad school, even though I was studying mathematics. One girl I dated was a friend of my sister, another I met through caving buddies, another at a retreat for volunteers at a crisis hotline, a few through personals ads in alternative weeklies, and a couple through chance meetings: one time I got in a really good conversation with the woman behind me in the checkout line at a store, and another time I was in a restaurant with some friends, saw an attractive woman at the next table, and sent her a dessert.

All of this was pre-1990, so very very pre-Internet.

Funny thing, I was the chef at a major night spot in San Diego in th 1980’s. Cocaine in the bathrooms, dirty-dancing, nudity in the photo booth, high-priced drinks, cover charge, gorgeous lady customers and co-workers.

But I never got laid.

:confused::frowning:

anyone remember Confetti ?