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Churches that I have attended have placed the teachings of Jesus at a very low priority, far below the judgmental teachings of Paul and the particular parts of the OT that allow them to feel superior to others. The teachings of Jesus seem to be an inconvenience to be explained away, as has been demonstrated by other responses in this thread. Christians seem to me to be very quick to get Jesus crucified so he can’t open his mouth, and then continue with their self-aggrandizement and judging of others.
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The idea of a judgemental Paul vs. a lovey-dovey Jesus is a really simplistic view of the NT. You think Jesus wasn’t judgemental? The same Jesus who said “Anyone who puts a hand to the plow and then looks back is not fit for the Kingdom of God,” to the guy who wanted to say goodbye to his family before following him (Luke 9:61-62)?
The one who said
[QUOTE=Matthew 7:6]
“Don’t waste what is holy on people who are unholy. Don’t throw your pearls to pigs! They will trample the pearls, then turn and attack you."
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The one who said
[QUOTE=Matthew 10:37-38]
If you love your father or mother more than you love me, you are not worthy of being mine; or if you love your son or daughter more than me, you are not worthy of being mine. If you refuse to take up your cross and follow me, you are not worthy of being mine.
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Paul’s judgemental? The same Paul who argued that Gentiles should be accepted as they are into the church? The same Paul who said
[QUOTE=Romans 7:17-25]
So the trouble is not with the law, for it is spiritual and good. The trouble is with me, for I am all too human, a slave to sin. I don’t really understand myself, for I want to do what is right, but I don’t do it. Instead, I do what I hate. But if I know that what I am doing is wrong, this shows that I agree that the law is good. So I am not the one doing wrong; it is sin living in me that does it.
And I know that nothing good lives in me, that is, in my sinful nature.[d] I want to do what is right, but I can’t. I want to do what is good, but I don’t. I don’t want to do what is wrong, but I do it anyway. But if I do what I don’t want to do, I am not really the one doing wrong; it is sin living in me that does it.
I have discovered this principle of life—that when I want to do what is right, I inevitably do what is wrong. I love God’s law with all my heart. But there is another power[e] within me that is at war with my mind. This power makes me a slave to the sin that is still within me. Oh, what a miserable person I am! Who will free me from this life that is dominated by sin and death? Thank God! The answer is in Jesus Christ our Lord. So you see how it is: In my mind I really want to obey God’s law, but because of my sinful nature I am a slave to sin.
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The same Paul who said
[QUOTE=Romans 12:9-19]
Don’t just pretend to love others. Really love them. Hate what is wrong. Hold tightly to what is good. Love each other with genuine affection, and take delight in honoring each other. Never be lazy, but work hard and serve the Lord enthusiastically. Rejoice in our confident hope. Be patient in trouble, and keep on praying. When God’s people are in need, be ready to help them. Always be eager to practice hospitality.
Bless those who persecute you. Don’t curse them; pray that God will bless them. Be happy with those who are happy, and weep with those who weep. Live in harmony with each other. Don’t be too proud to enjoy the company of ordinary people. And don’t think you know it all!
Never pay back evil with more evil. Do things in such a way that everyone can see you are honorable. Do all that you can to live in peace with everyone.
Dear friends, never take revenge. Leave that to the righteous anger of God.
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Or this
[QUOTE=1 Corinthians 5:9-13]
When I wrote to you before, I told you not to associate with people who indulge in sexual sin. But I wasn’t talking about unbelievers who indulge in sexual sin, or are greedy, or cheat people, or worship idols. You would have to leave this world to avoid people like that. I meant that you are not to associate with anyone who claims to be a believer yet indulges in sexual sin, or is greedy, or worships idols, or is abusive, or is a drunkard, or cheats people. Don’t even eat with such people. It isn’t my responsibility to judge outsiders, but it certainly is your responsibility to judge those inside the church who are sinning. 13 God will judge those on the outside; but as the Scriptures say, “You must remove the evil person from among you.”
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Just 1 Corinthians 13 alone should be enough to dispel the idea of “judgemental Paul.”