Although this seems to be stricktly an adult message board (with mature readers!!) I will attempt to keep this posted message PG rated.
Due to the Christmas holiday I am over a week behind in posting this question here for any one to assist with answers, particulary guys.
Two weeks ago I went to the gym where I work-out about three or four times per week for about an hour to 90 minutes. I go there directly after leaving work since it makes more sense logically since do I not live downtown. I am surely no body builder or anything, I just obtained a one-year health club/gym membership thanks to a coupon at work and I took advantage of the deal about six months ago. While signing in at the front desk two weeks ago, I encountered a guy (about my age, 30) who I have seen often at the gym, and he was there this time apparently with his wife and their newborn son. They were talking with the front desk receptionist and cooing over the little infant.
I went to the lockerroom to change and start my usual basic workout, and just as I was about to leave the lockerroom this guy comes in, so obviously he was here to introduce their new-born son to club staff and then he did a workout while wife and child reparted. I have seen this guy about half of the time when I am at the gym and we seem to have the same workout hours as he comes in at about the same time as I arrive, and the same with our departures, however he does more strength and weight lifting.
Additionally, on an average night both of us are there, we are usually the only two men there as about two or three out of ten patrons on any given night are women, as some reason more women are members here, or at least when we come for our nightly workouts around 6:30 pm weekdays. So that helps in bus of guys being able to chat or connect more than if there were twenty or more guys there on a given night.
Now here comes the shocking part that I need assistance with by you message board readers. After I did my workout and returned to the lockerroom for a shower and clean-up, this guy came in about five minutes later to shower and change, which is not that unusual as we have about the same hours at the gym. In the past we basically chat about being Jacksonville Jaguars football fans, what was posted on the walls for members in the lockerroom, and about the weather, etc. But mostly he has earplugs in to listen to music—so its usually just a nod or “hello”.
When both of were changing to jump in the shower, I happen to look up to glace at Keith and I was totally and absolutely floored to see this guy with his genitals completely shaved. You know, shaved all around the penis and his balls. Not to brag, but I have very hairy dark brown pubic hair just as how this guy had. One day he was “normal” then the next, he comes in totally shaved clean. Of course, I don’t stare, but I have always thought he actually had a handsome looking penis and private area. I have no idea why he suddenly shaved down there, surely it could not be a Christmas gift to the wife as I saw this guy two weeks before Christmas. He had to have shaved after I last saw him at the gym that week (Wednesday, Dec. 10th) and just before his arrival at the gym that night, Friday, December 12).
I had wanted to ask this guy how and why he shaved his balls because, well quite frankly, it was something that I had also thought about doing (at least once) to find out what it is like to be shaved all down there and also a a surprise to my partner, who would be totally shocked if I did it.
So I wonder, any one have advice on how I can ask him how and why he shaved his genitals (perhaps in a clever, direct, or humorous) way? It would not be as if I would embarrass him in front of other guys in the lockerroom, because we are the only two guys there at the same time, yet I wish to not make it awkward, and I have no idea if this is something guys would be willing to talk with other guys about. Its not like I am asking him where he got his t-shirt or where he got his workout sneakers, so not sure how to go about it.
Yes, I know, I can always just try to do it myself or maybe see if there is a website (everything seems to be told online) but I would like to engage him in some questions and get cirect feedback, and besides, I am really curious why he did it or if he was forced to do it because of his wife—some new adventure in the bedroom after the boy was born. Who knows.
So any one can provide me tips, suggestions, and an opening line to provoke a conversation, that would be great—and especially if any of you men have shaved your dick and balls AND even had someone approach you about. Did you appreciate the question and asking of tips, or took it as odd, which is what I fear. Of course, I have no sexual interest in the guy and only want to learn more as I had thought of doing it since the last few months as well. I just could not believe it when I saw him that night when he took off his clothes just before going to the shower, and then when both of us hit the showers together he never tried to hide it from me or looked at me in a way (as if to make me think him suggesting a thought of “see anything new Jay?” sort of thing). My last gym visit was last Monday, but he was not there, and I will likely not get back until maybe this coming Tuesday, December 30, so unless I see him then (very good chance) then I won’t see him until after the first week of January. I just hope he kept it shaved and it was not just a one-time shaving of his balls, who knows.
But I will say, regardless of the reason, I admit that I was attracted to him before as he did have handsome hairy balls and penis, however, suddenly, now its more visible obviously and I still think he looks great with it all shaved clean down there, as it was not buzzed he actually had it all clean shaven.
Yeah, I am sure if straight guys are honest, they would say that they think other guys are atttractive in the private areas too (and even check out lengths), but are not sexually interested with them. And no, I do not wish or plan to have him shave me when at the showers after I bring this up with him, only just to get information and chat about his shaving. By the way, any idea why he would shave down there just less than a month after the son was born? Wonder is that any significance to what he did two weeks ago? I am just happy that I did not suddenly get erect when I saw his shaved nudity. That would surely send him the wrong message!!! Please drop me a reply with any and all suggestions, tips and personal experiences.