My older sister is a bit of a late blooomer on the college front, so to speak. She didn’t start attending school until after I did (she’s 29 now and working on her Associate’s)
She’s going to school for radiography, so, as she explains it, she’d be the technician doing MRIs and such.
Here’s the problem- though she’s not stupid, she’s not a math or “hard” science person at all. She has tried and failed (twice) to take Elementary Algebra, which is a remedial course she must complete before starting on any science classes. She’s a lot like me, more into the social sciences. She really enjoyed her sociology and psychology classes, and loves to debate.
Plus, she is grossed out by blood and guts and all that (completely unlike me- I jumped at the chance to dissect a different marine animal every week in my marine biology class, and think watching open-heart surgery is perfectly acceptable dinner-time entertainment). She’ll have to take A&P I & II, and I know in A&P II you have to dissect things (I actually dropped my A&P I lab when I found out we didn’t get to dissect anything, and I’m a history major, I was just taking the class for fun). She just called me, asking about A&P, and told me she’d have to try to get some exemption based on (false) religious grounds to get out of dissecting crap.
We’ve talked before about her career choice, and she knows it isn’t a good fit for her, yet, I quote, “But any career in the fields I’m interested in (e.g. sociology) won’t make me any money.”
I’ve told her this is stupid. I’ve also told her that she probably won’t make it through the radiography program (I assume Elementary Algebra won’t fulfill their math requirements) and even if she did, she’d probably get a job as radiographer only to find out that she hated it, and would be back at school doing something she’s actually interested in and (gasp) good at, but she’s still motivated solely by monetary concerns.
Really, she is so poorly suited for this career it’s laughable; in fact, we should totally switch places. I know not everyone can be like me and choose a career that seems to actively discourage the acquisition of money, but I can’t imagine that a degree in something like sociology would provide no opportunities to earn a decent living.
What should I do? I know she’s a big girl and all that, but she’s really wasting time and energy on this. She’s said she picked radiography because pushing a few buttons on a fancy machine seemed so easy, and paid so well. So, maybe I won’t make so much money, but teaching classes, doing research, and writing seems really fricking easy (and fun) to me, and I know the same sort of thing would be easy (and fun) for her too.