Anyways, @Beckdawrek, you took us on this weird drug tangent without answering the original question. If she is doing porn to pay for a mercedes or other luxury, rather than to pay her bills - what’s it to ya?
You brought up drugs. Don’t put that on me.
I care because I’ve raised kids. I have grandkids in the school system.
I really don’t care that she did the OF porn(yes it’s porn. And porn is a deplorable system that’s not good for women. Ever. It’s made for men to get their rocks off. Because HE can’t get it any other way. It teaches young boys unrealistic views on sex. And it’s never going away. So, guys don’t worry you’ll be able to find free porn til the end of time)
The teacher needs to quit saying she did it, oh poor me, to pay off her school loans.
She did it for the big money. That’s all. She can buy any damn thing she wants.
It’s wrong to lie about it. And we all know that’s what she’s doing. Of course she’s gonna try to mitigate her shame and guilt.
Yes, guilty.
She knows she’s guilty of something. Hence the face hiding.
She got busted out. Resigned her job. Will probably have to sacrifice the career she supposedly loved.
Well, too bad dummy. You made the wrong choice. You have to suffer the consequences.
ETA, sorry that was @Babale who brought up drugs. Not you. Or me.
I like how there’s not even a space between you saying “I don’t care if they do OF,” and immediately contradicting yourself.
I don’t care if SHE personally did OF. Plenty of people do, it seems. That’s her problem.
I care about the whole situation. And how it affects my kids
Clearly.
I assure you that at least some men who “can get it” other ways (happily married, etc) still visit Only Fans now and then.
I’ve never been to that site, but I believe O.F. is not free.
What?
That’s true. It’s not free. But there’s plenty free.
You keep saying “we all know” this and “we all know” that. You do not speak for everyone.
Y’all are picking out pieces of what I’m saying. That’s not right.
Especially the gay porn!
I’m quite happy to sit back and watch the totality of this trainwrek. I’m just worried that the mods might give you a warning for what you’re doing to yourself outside the PIt.
What I said was “as long as she’s not buying drugs or something” and you decided that meant she was cracked up with no teeth.
You’re not the only one. I care because I have kids and I want the world they grow into to be a less regressive and self-hating one.
Clearly you do
Are you gonna offer any evidence to substantiate your claim, or do we just have to take your word for it?
I can tell that this really bothers you. Why’s that?
Did you know that sometimes women watch porn? Gasp!
The fact that you continue insinuating in nearly every post that the only reason someone might disagree with you is that they are horny men concerned with their own future porn supply is both extremely insulting and mind numbingly sexist. I’d thank you for stopping.
Did she say that? I hadn’t seen that she had.
OK, cool. So what?
If she did it to pay for her Grandma’s chemo, or to pay for her boyfriend’s LEGO collecting habit, or to pay for her expensive taste in sex toys - who the fuck cares? Why does it matter?
As a society. Pornography is not good. Yes we all know this. It’s not a secret what it does too women. I didn’t cause this. Some MAN did a gazillion years ago. For other men to “enjoy”
It’s bad for young boys and men. They assume all sex is like that. And it’s not.
You men here telling me it’s just all okay. I should not have an opinion are just wrong.
I do not want my childs teacher to do pornography. That’s all I’m saying.
just trying to help
Out of curiosity, could you quote a single person who told you that you shouldn’t have an opinion?
I don’t know what is shown on OF (I just watch Funny Cat Videos online ), but with regard to porn in general, there are certainly sub-genres (I’ve been told
) that, while being OK between consenting adults in a controlled environment, are potentially dangerous physically, and/or psychologically if acted out by pre-adults.
Would you, for example, be OK if your 15yo daughter Becky watched porn depicting a guy tying up and spitting on, gagging, choking, whipping, etc. a woman? Would you be OK if her boyfriend Timmy watched? Would you be OK if they tried to re-create the scene at home? I wouldn’t.
I’m not anti-porn, I’m just anti children watching porn, and youngsters being taught by pornsters.
And, for the record, I don’t want my kids taught by anti-vaxxers either.
Yup. I think her opinion is uninformed–and that’s all I think I can say here without running afoul of rules–but of course she’s allowed to have an opinion.
Exactly what you say.
I’ve admitted I know little about watching pornography. I’ve seen some and it’s disgusting.
It’s fake and unrealistic.
OF can only be seen by making an account and paying…yes I looked.
I’m not uninformed as to what it does to women. I can read.