What? What kind of crap attitude is that (on their part)?!
Were you able to try to escalate to a manager at all?
Does the UberEats app not have proof of delivery…?
If their customer service really is that bad, maybe consider switching to Doordash & Lyft instead? Both those companies have handled 100% of my complaints (4-6 over the years) to my satisfaction, each and every time.
In particular, Doordash has always over-refunded order issues (misdeliveries, missing items, etc.) on the first try, with minimal verification. I’ve gotten more than a few free meals, and quite a number of free items in meals, from various complaints. Sometimes it was because the driver went to the wrong place, sometimes it was due to restaurant fuck-ups, sometimes it was just due to a missing add-on for an item or whatever. They always took care of me easily & immediately, like a partial refund for small orders, or a complete refund + additional future credit for bigger mistakes. I just asked directly and nicely and they were always happy to comply.
It’s hard to believe UberEats would be that much worse, to the point of refusing to help even after several attempts. How would they have stayed competitive through these years…?
If that happened to me, I’d definitely charge it back and then ban Uber and UberEats from my spending. Fuck 'em if that’s their attitude.
But if you travel internationally and can’t use Lyft (they don’t have a global presence like Uber does), that might be harder. If it was a small order, I’d just suck it up and switch to Doordash for food going forward. If it was a bigger order, I might try even harder to push for a proper refund (and then still switch to Doordash afterward).
Some companies do ban customers for doing chargebacks. There are many anecdotes online about Uber doing the same.
But I’m really surprised that they don’t just refund you. A single order refund is nothing compared to making you a habitual repeat customer.