Or a gay male. Men are so easy… 
Honey, me neither - he didn’t become a Mod until we were hitched, and by that time, who was dating? 
Are you kidding? All you have to do is slap that bad boy a coupla times during your solo and the love will come oozing towards you.
Well. From me, anyway.
Bartend. You’re considered safe, popular, fun and the booze helps. They’re horny and not looking for Mr. Commitment right now which helps to not waste any time. I’m not even that good looking, but trust me, I know.
As a gay New Yorker from the '60s through the '90s, I “dated” about 2-3,000 men before finding My Guy. And he “dated” about 3x as many as I did.
And no, neither of us is named Samuel Delany.