well, you know of one now. right now as a matter of fact.
Kewl! Let me flex here a bit…
Oh, nothing, dear. Just reading the Dope. You go back to doing whatever you are doing.
I have no idea, but I’d like to have a list of the names, phone #s, email addresses and recent photos of the members of that list.
Only one that I am certain of. I have no way of guaging beyond that. There are alot of times when a woman will like you but neither of you does anything about it or you don’t know about it, so its really hard to tell. So somewhere in the 1-50 range.
I know of at least a few ex girlfriends who told me they fantasized about me, whether true or not, it’s good for the ego. As for gay guys, I dunno. While I hung out with a fair number, none of them ever shared their dreams about me…
To paraphrase Groucho, I wouldn’t want to be in a relationship with anyone who fantasized about me. 
No offense to them, but I never fantasized about my then wife or current GF – isn’t the whole idea of a fantasy to go for the wild, extraordinary stuff?
A couple that I KNOW of. Including the waitress at the pizza place a few years ago.
“Hey, I was just thinking about you the other day and telling someone about you”
“Really? My ears weren’t ringing”
“It wouldn’t have been your ears hon…”
If it’s my boyfriend, of course I want him to think about me when he masturbates, because there’s no better proof that he desires me. If it goes in some bizarre direction, that’s great! (I wish he was kinkier, anyway.) Now, if it’s not my boyfriend, then it falls under the category of things I’m fine with, as long as you don’t tell me about it.
I just assumed anyone who ever saw me.
Depends on whether or not I’m into him. I had a guy tell me one time that he’d been masterbating to thoughts of me, and it was HOT because, well, I was already hot for him. And I had to admit that I’d been thinking about him at the same time he’d been thinking about me… yeah… that led to good things.
If I’m not into the guy though, I probably don’t want to know that he’s thinking about me That Way.
To the OP, I have no idea. Other than the aforementioned guy and the guys I’ve dated/been involved with, no one’s mentioned it to me so I just don’t know. Since I’m wearing tight jeans and a sexy shirt today, I’m hoping I’m inspiring one or two fantasies. 
If anyone is while reading this post, please PM me.
I’ve never thought about this. I have no idea. I’m not sure I’d want to know either. I think my reaction would be a big :eek: if somebody told me.
A lot. I’m the kind of person that most men either aren’t attracted to because of my personality, or are completely obsessed with from the first time they see me. One example: Roughly 2 and a half years ago I met a guy I’ll call Jason, relatively briefly. I really didn’t find him all that attractive since he was overweight, but somehow he begged my screen name off of a friend of his and started IMing and emailing me regularly. I responded in a friendly manner because he seemed interesting and cool, but every time he heard through the grapevine that I talked to or dated someone else he would get very angry and have childish outbursts. While I was in a year-long relationship he constantly begged me to leave my boyfriend for him and even told me he always thought and fantasized about me, although we hadn’t seen each other since our first meeting and he didn’t have a picture.
Well, my relationship ended, and a few months after that Jason talked to me again and asked me out on a date. I put a lot of thought into it and decided, what the hell, public place, what have I got to lose? So I said yes out of intense curiousity and somehow he seduced me into dating him. BTW he had lost weight. Well, it didn’t work out–Jason had a lot of things wrong with him, he had Torrets and OCD, and I found out the hard way that he was a lying, selfish manipulator and had all the qualities of a serial rapist. I should have known better. Well, there’s my story. Hope you learned something. I certainly did.
Tens of thousands.
I was a stripper for 12 years, went to an event called Nudes a Poppin three times, and I have 43,000 views on my My Space page.
You could say I’ve been an exhibitionist.
I’m not sure how I would know. I’ve never heard anyone even admit to me that they masturbate (not that I’m interrogating my friends and acquaintances), let alone that they’re thinking about little ol’ me.
And it’s not come up (snorrrrrrt) in conversation so far.
Funny anecdote. I told my good friend, “I was fantasizing about you in the shower, yesterday.” She said, “Really, that turns you on? What would you do to me in the shower?”. I laughed and had to explain that I was in the shower…well, well, you know…
It depends on the person. A friend once told me that he had thought of me a few times while beating off. At first, I was sort of flattered, but then he killed it by saying that he always fantasized about any female friends of his that were even slightly attractive. Somehow, that made it less flattering.
I’ve only told a few people that I thought of them while masturbating, and it was in conversations in which we were basically talking about that kind of thing already. None of them seemed freaked out.
I have no idea what the number would be, other than a few long-term boyfriends who were candid about it. Being not entirely replusive physically and having gone through occasional periods of moderately exhibitionistic dressing, I would guess I’ve made guest appearances to anonymous strangers now and then. Appearances in the mind of real life acquaintances? Don’t know, assume it has happened at times, perfectly fine with me.
As a matter of fact, I never felt particularly strongly about this one way or another until recently. It certainly wouldn’t bother me to have someone do so - I mean, it’s just fantasy, not unwanted physical advances, and there’s no harm in any fantasy, no matter how twisted, if it’s only in your head - [I’ve had plenty of twisted fantasies myself, even though I don’t wish to act them out IRL] - but neither has it been something I gave a lot of thought to or got some sort of ego boost from imagining my rating.
That is, until recently. I have a long-term SO who I love dearly and deeply, but I find that I have also fallen passionately in love with someone who is forbidden to me, mainly because I am “taken” (though there are a couple other factors as well). Despite all our eye-to-eye looks, shared secrets, and long, intimate conversations, I tell myself that I know nothing physical can ever happen between us, because I am a woman of honor (and he is a man of honor as well). So I have found myself fervently and frequently hoping that I make appearances in his fantasies, the more often the better, and the more extreme the better. I guess it is my way of creating some version of the intense intimacy I long for in every fiber of my being but don’t ever expect to make real.
My soul is much the poorer for missing out on it. 
**cowgirl ** plucked my words right out of my head.
Well, I probably shouldn’t want to, but yes, I do like it when a guy tells me he fantasizes about me… if I find him attractive. If I find him completely repulsive I get really freaked out and might not talk to him again. I do wonder sometimes just how many of the people I know actually jack it to me. I know my ex that I mentioned earlier still has some pretty hot pics of me stashed away.