First I’d like to say that I don’t think anyone should ever be called “racist.” If you call someone racist (even if you think they unmistakeably are), they will be offended, and offending someone isn’t particularly conducive to getting them to re-think their hateful ideas. So I prefer to think of racism that exists in institutions, policies, assumptions, etc, and that we should all be prepared to think about it in this way, without immediately assuming “racist” = “insult.” This way (I hope) people could begin to understand the subtle ways that race affects their lives and other people’s.
monstro: I would have been pissed off if I had been in that meeting as well. I think that one reason a lot of people of colour underestimate the occurrence of racism is because lots of racism happens when only white people are around. I have heard so many comments from people that never would have been made if I had been black.
Rose: wow, that study about people holding guns ! Do you have a cite for it? (Not that I don’t believe you - the results seem very intuitive! I’d like to keep it for future debates.)
Kimstu: you’re awesome. I was about to cite the job-interview study (which I saw you post last week) but here you are, with even more ! Thanks for adding some empirical data to the discussion.
BrainGlutton: I completely agree with your point about terminology. I (as a Canadian married to an African) have always defined the term African-American to refer to that particular culture which has emerged among the descendents of American slaves. Many blacks, as you correctly point out, are neither African nor American, and some African-born naturalized Americans (ie white Africans) are not black. There are commonalities, though: black people in America tend to be treated like other black people in America, so it’s not surprising that similar circumstances sometimes lead recent Nigerian immigrants into the same kind of social contexts as sixth-generation African Americans.
Also, Caribbean culture includes quite a lot of people descended from the Indian sub-continent. For this reason I maintain that if you mean ‘black,’ say ‘black.’ My husband is not African-American, nor is FW deKlerk. (I remain silent on the issue of whether the word should be capitalized - I’ve seen it both ways and I can’t decide on the importance of the distinction.)
Now.
Racism =! the belief that black people (or other people who aren’t white) are somehow inferior to white people.
Racism = the way that your experiences (which affect who you are - your personality, your job, your opinions etc) are profoundly affected by your racial origin.
If you’re black, people will treat you as if you’re black.
Imagine this: You’re walking to a friend’s party in an unfamiliar neighbourhood, and you’re not sure where you’re going. You are crossing through a dimly-lit area. Do you approach that young woman over there and ask her for directions?
How is your answer different if you are a young white woman, than if you are a young black man?
On the subject of noticing racism within ourselves: The reason I bring up the above example is because this happened to me. I was walking alone in my neighbourhood one evening and a stranger approached me. He was a young black man. As I saw him approach my heart jumped, I got nervous, I grabbed my keys in my pocket, I headed towards a well-lit area. As it was happening I knew that I was being paranoid, that he probably didn’t have any ill intentions, that I know quite well that most black men are no more dangerous to me than anyone. But I couldn’t help how I felt. So if I - whose husband is black, whose neices and nephews are black, and whose children will be black - still get that moment of apprehension when I see a strange black man approach, then how can you say that the black man’s world is no different from the white man’s?
If racism is not a problem, why do native-born white people rarely work in fast food restaurants (except as teenagers), or as janitors or maids?
Why do we see black people in other countries doing horrible things to each other, and we rarely (if ever) see white people either doing these horrible things or having them done to them? I have seen numerous dead black people in newspapers; dead white people are usually covered up or not shown at all. Why are the images of black people not sanitized?
