So I got a letter from an alumna of my grade school. And I’m really interested in responding to this letter, only I don’t want to come off as a present member of the trenchcoat mafia. So anyway, here’s the letter (edited a bit, of course):
"Dear fellow [grade school] alumni:
"My name is [name], and I graduated from [grade school] in [recent year]. I am now a [year in school] at [public high school]. Though I no longer attend [grade school], I still have the pleasure of spending two afternoons every week at [GS], where I work at the front desk and help with the extended day program. I enjoy my afternoons at [GS]. When I look around, I see students excited and happy because they are in a caring and friendly place.
"Annual Giving finances many of the enrichment programs at [GS]. For example, Annual Giving contributions are used for new software and help finance field trips and the Caroline Furnace trip. In addition, Annual Giving helped make many of the renovations possible, including the [name]Arts Center and the [name] house reconstruction. I spent six years at [GS], and I now see how imporant Annual Giving was to my time spent there.
"I hope today’s students at [GS] have an experience that is as good, if not better, than the one we had. You can help this happen by contributing to Annual Giving. A small donation, even if just the price of a movie ticket, will help the studenst of [GS] receive the best education possible.
“We will always remember our days at [GS]. Please help to ensure that the future [GS] graduates’ memories are as wonderful as ours by donating to [GS] Annual Giving.”
I don’t plan to send any letter back to the student who wrote this letter because said student obviously didn’t know that this letter would be sent to some of the more … less pleased, disgruntled graduates of that place. And this person doesn’t need the kind of reply I envision right now. However, there are people still at the school who do know what an utter crock of shit it is to imply that even a small percent of my memories from that place are anything in the general vicinity of positive.
My current plan is to send a letter to the school, or perhaps email the head of Annual Giving (assuming said person has email listed. This place is more technologically backward than Mars during a power outage) and explain to that/those persons why I won’t be giving any money to that school ever again unless I go senile and somehow start to think that I didn’t experience Hell there.
However, my usual modus operandis is, shall we say, a bit long-winded (death by systematic refutation of factual errors). However, “I chose not to give money to [GS] a few years after I graduated from it. Please take me off your Annual Giving mailing list. Thank you” would be rather weak. Suggestions?