Hey all,
I decided to move in with my roommate who I had knowm for about a year before moving in from a previous job. I moved in with him because I needed a new place to go and since Im new to the area I didnt know many people besides the people I had worked with. He seemed normal at the time. He is a male and I am a female. So this all started because he didnt like that my bf would stay the night once or twice a week. He demanded rent from him which I had told him my boyfriend would not pay because he did not live here and would only visit those few nights, just for the night. My bf offered to pay him money for utilities to keep things calm but that did not make him happy. My roommate contacted peoperty management AND the owners of the home and complained to them, then later that night said hed take the money for the utilities. After this a lot happened so Im just going to list things.
-roommate specifically told me he just wants to be “aquatences and not talk at all besides bills” which was fine with me.
-roommate stopped paying his half of bills in my name (internet and gas)
-would play his drums or music any night my bf was over (sleeping in my room) until 2 or 3 am.
-would have people over without letting me know (would tell old coworkers that i need to move out and doesnt care about telling me theyre there)
-doesnt buy any soap, tp, paper towels, trash bags, etc.
-doesnt help clean bathroom and leaves pubes/beard hair all over bathroom.
-parks in both the garage and driveway and lets friends park in my spot right in front of the house on the street.
-revd his car in the garage for an hour when i had my cousins over
-closes the blinds as soon as i open them
-unplugs my rice cooker when its just keeping my rice warm.
Then things got weird. He tried to be all nice to my friends and family and tried to make it seem like i was the one making things hostile. Told them they didnt have a problem with them only my bf. Tried to tell my bf he doesnt care about rent, etc.
-roommate knocked on my door for 10 mins straight because I didnt want to talk to him.
-doesnt allow me to use washer/dryer which he brought into the place at beginning of rent even though i was going to put my own there. Told him to move his out so i can put mine in, he refuses. yet uses my detergent.
-I changed password to internet since he wasnt paying his half and he took my paperwork for it and the lease and called the internet company under my name.
So really I just want to get out of this lease but the problem is, I cant get out unless he signs me off which I am positive he wont do because he doesnt have the money to afford the place himself.
