How to memorialize people

One final post on the SDMB. My message about Opal was innocent. Some of you here actively gossiped about and insulted Opal while she was alive and cruelly mocked her struggles with mental illness. And now these same people are sanctimoniously piling on and attacking me for saying that I’m sorry she didn’t get a chance to document, illustrate and discuss her final life chapter. The hypocracy is astonishing. I have been here as a moderator, a staff report contributor and a poster for about 14 years. I am now finally completely disgusted by this out-of-touch “community.”