It’s interesting that you include Dopers (I assume you mean people on this message board, not potheads ) as exceptions to the “rule” that Americans do not look beyond their borders. It makes me wonder if it’s possible that you disregard Americans who don’t fit the stereotype as “exceptions”, while not noticing the Canadians who, in fact, don’t know much about the outside world. Of course, you’ve lived in the country many years while I’ve only visited a few times, but you wouldn’t be the only politically left-wing American who left the country for Canada and thinks his new country is so much better, despite the fact it’s not all that different.
I think Americans are quite aware that in many countries they are not necessarily seen as the good guys.
The US has federalism, cooperation (maybe more on the private than governmental level, but it’s still there), same-sex marriage (in Massachusetts at least, plus civil unions in a few other states), cultural integration without a melting pot (in many places, blacks and Hispanics, while being part of the American nation, have a rather distinct culture) and Tim Horton’s (in some states, but how in hell is this a cultural value anyway?) There is even gun control in some states, but of course the US constitutionally protects the right to privately own firearms. I’m not sure what you mean exactly by “inclusiveness”, and I have no idea what “seal clubbing” is supposed to refer to. (The seal hunt in the Gulf of St. Lawrence?)
My point is that, yes, the US and Canada do differ somewhat in terms of culture, but given the wide cultural variety in both countries, you will find “American” values to be quite common in Canada, and “Canadian” values to be quite common in the US as well. Even in your example of “socialized medicine”, I’m sure you know that there is a movement to reform the American healthcare system, and there is a movement to increase the private contribution to the Canadian healthcare system. While the US may have more of a gun culture than Canada, plenty of Canadians do love their guns and many Americans see no need for these things and would like to see them more regulated. I, personally, would like to see Canada move a bit toward integrating immigrants (i.e. “melting pot”) rather than toward multiculturalism at any cost.
Actually, that’s an interesting point: in some places in Canada, ensuring that roads be accessible for human-powered vehicles may be considered extremely important (and I would agree). But then you have the now deceased mayor of Quebec City Andrée Boucher who thought that bikes were only little toys for kids and that real adult people took their cars to get to work. (Yes, she really pissed me off when she basically said this.) I think you’d find it really hard to describe “common Canadian values”.
What matt said is that Canada is a different country from the US and that hearing people say that Canadian provinces are basically more states makes him fear that Canada’s sovereignty won’t be respected. I don’t exactly share his fear, though I believe I know where he’s coming from, but I think what you’re saying is a bit different.