They don’t say anything; German romancing is way different and possibly a little weird. Fortunately the interwebz have taken it upon themselves to describe it.
To begin with, by moving forward at this point (enrolled in her class, enrolled in future classes) you are putting her in a position where her career- including years of schooling and probably tens of thousands of dollars- is on the line. Teachers learn to be VERY careful with students who have crushes on them, because frankly students can be unpredictable and it isn’t hard at all to find yourself dealing with false accusations, misinterpretation, and revenge plots. At the very, very, very least, making too overt a move at this point has the potential to make her very uncomfortable and make impact her ability to teach the class effectively (she may, for example, become more hesitant to give individual feedback or meet students individually) which can affect the experiences of everyone in the class.
It’s not cool to make people you have a professional relationship with uncomfortable because you would like to have sex with them.
On the other side, PSXer doesn’t appear to be the most mature person in the world. While she may be some mysterious immature 30 year old professor, chances are that she vastly outmatches him in life experience, relationship experience, and maturity in general. Yes, every relationship has some power dynamic, but when they are vastly unmatched like this there is a lot of potential for trouble on all sides.
If someone tried to woo me in French, I’d punch them.
Give me German (or Russian, too) any day! I find the language(s) terribly sexy. *Mein Schatz *. . .
I predict the frequency of sexual assault is about to rise in Germany.
Now, when German women say, “Nein! Nein! Nein!”, the aggressive men will interpret it as a Herman Cain imitation and press on.
Hard to believe this op is taken seriously.
You could assassinate Sarkozy – then she’ll recognize you.
Oh, and invade Poland!
I’d like to invade her Poland
You may find it rather frigid this time of year.
Have you had sex before?
no. what gave it away?
There are at least two ways an aggressive man could interpret that…
Why would anyone bring up child rape, when there are no children involved whatsoever?
What an odd thing to say.
I was just curious. I thought it was about 50/50.
it is an endless cycle of I can’t get a relationship because I have no experience with it and I can’t get any experience because I can’t get a relationship even with girls my own age
Just don’t mention the war.
I did it once but I think I got away with it.
You should try temping at a few places.
I heard volunteering is a good idea too
Don’t you meet girls at school? At work? There is nothing less appealing to a girl than a guy with no confidence. So even if you don’t feel confident, fake it.
Yep great idea. Go sign up now.