I confessed attraction to a fellow Doper

Sent an e-mail to HER early this morning (didn’t go to bed till 5 AM, but that’s another thread). She hasn’t e-mailed me back. Should I be worried, or am I just paranoid?

Paranoid. You emailed her early this morning - that’s probably less than 10 hours. Some people go DAYS without checking their email.

p.s. I’m not so sure that was a good idea, either, but that’s just my opinion.

I have friends who met on another message board…

Is she asian?

PA:not that I know of! (THOUGHT someone would ask). interface2x-you may be right, my paranoia is fear of rejection.

See, you did that wrong. You’re supposed to chase them around threads and then icq them bad music first. Then hook up for a dirty weekend and instead end up marrying her.

At least, that’s what Weirddave did.

I always knew Dave was a romantic at heart. :slight_smile:

You’re starting to look desperate, kid. Chill out. It’s going to be ok.

Haj

Some folks don’t check their email much on weekends.

For example, if it’s me you are hot for, I haven’t been on e-mail since Friday afternoon.

lol

that cracked me up. :smiley:

Mazel tov, Eric! No matter how it turns out, that took cajones - I could never do something like that. I just hope she said something in a post to indicate some sort of affection - getting an email like that out of the blue might be seen as a trifle…odd.

Regardless, best of luck! Let us know how it goes.

i was wondering where that strange e-mail came from you need to double check that address next time you send a email

I might do the same…but I’m attracted to matt_mcl and not only is he taken, but I’m a girl! Drat! :slight_smile:

I, for one, am quite hot for Cranky. Good thing I didnt’t try to email her! :smiley:

Confession time: how many people are going to check their e-mail as a result of this thread?

You’re way braver than me; I’ve been sweet on someone here for ages and am too chicken to tell him. Good luck!

You should go ahead and tell Zenster how you feel.

erictelevision, if you haven’t heard from her yet, you should write again. I’d keep writing every couple of hours until you hear from her. Be sure and make the letters as long as possible, and in them you should confess a lot of private thoughts that you’re not comfortable telling the world at large.

This way she’ll see that you’re (a) really interested, and (b) not afraid to share your feelings. Women love that.

[sub]Note: Just so your blood doesn’t get on my hands, let me stress that I am JOKING. Do NOT do what I said here.[/sub]

Out of curiosity have you met her in IRL at a dopefest or is this blind ambition based simply on her sparkling SDMB personality?

never met her IRL. (we have something important in common) BTW, she DID e-mail me back.