I’m putting this in the pit because I expect to get slagged for saying this.
I don’t understand transsexualism. I can’t. My entire - gender-related -frame of reference is based on being born the gender that I am. I don’t get transsexualism. To me, that’s fine. There are many things I don’t get but accept. This is one.
I have exactly nothing against trans people with two exceptions; 1)if you were an asshole in one gender you’re still an asshole in the other 2) if you refer to me as cis-gendered I’ll put you in the first category. I hate that fucking term.
The media has latched onto trans as the latest cause celebre and they are falling all over themselves in order to give exposure to trans-people and trans issues. And I am sick of it. Sick to the teeth. Sick to fucking death of it.
Trans-people were born with a brain and a body that don’t match. Fine. Cool, do what you need to do to be happy. But leave me the fuck out of it.
I don’t care!
I don’t wave my genitalia or sexuality around like a flag. I don’t expect the world to give a shit about my particular challenges - challenges which have made me permanently miserable and wishing to be dead - and if others like me were to start waving a flag I’d not march under it. Because it is my shit.
And yes I have been persecuted - though obviously not killed - and beaten for it. I’ve suffered the societal consequences for it.
If you are trans, sucks to be you and I truly hope you can get it adjusted but leave me the fuck out of it.
And bear in mind that what gains have been made for trans people have been made on the backs - primarily - of blacks and gays. The progress that trans-people have made in the last five years is entirely due to the work of the LGBQ community and trans-people have made more progress in those five years than the LGBQ did in the 40 years previous.
For fuck’s sake you’ve won. You’ve got federal legislative support, recognition and protection - at least in North America. You’ve got a pretty good segment of society behind you. What more do you want?
I will always be behind trans-peoples’ right to use the bathroom of their choice. I will always be behind trans-people being treated under law the same as anyone else. I support trans-rights and I will vote for those that favour them and against those who don’t.
But I’m absolutely fucking tired of hearing about it.
To be absolutely clear: I have no problem at all with transsexuals as people. I support transsexual rights. I abhor any form of bigotry against transsexuals.
Let the flaming begin.
Zeke