Oh, don’t be silly. Some people are so tightly wrapped that they can’t come unscrewed.
You’re making huge assumptions here. Even if 0.5% of a survey say they don’t masturbate, that’s still a lot of people who you’re discounting!!!
I don’t think they’re always lying. I didn’t masturbate once until I was 18 and my now-ex jump-started me by touching me himself and then after that I wanted to do it. I didn’t have a particularly religious or uptight upbringing either, the thought just never occurred to me. You all might think I’m touched in the head and maybe I am, but I know lots of girls who started late or abstain totally. Well, okay, some. A few. I’m not lying.
I think I would probably think a male was lying if they said it, though; either that or they have something wrong with them. Inconsistent, yeah, but that’s what I’d think.
I second that motion!
If I was asked if I masturbated a year ago I would have answered no. Sure I tried a few times but it really didn’t do anything for me. I never reached climax from it and basically I got bored. Then my boyfriend gave me a vibrator when we were going to be apart for a few months. Wow I got addicted to that little invention. So now I guess I masturbate.
Well, I guess I found out the hard way (no pun intended). I really didn’t think such people existed until I met my wife, lol. Suffice it to say it’s not the underlining feature I married her for.
I even bought her a vibrator that many women raved about at the sex shop and some lube for her; to encourage her to get busy when she felt inclined. She hasn’t used it yet, sigh.
My wife and I have a very honest relationship though. There’s no reason for me to sneak around and peek at her all the time. If I ask her directly she will give me the absolute honest truth. A very rare person indeed, heh… of course if someone else asked her, even a good friend she’d give no answer at all so…there you go.
Nope!
I ADORE sex. Love it love it LOVE IT!!!
But I very rarely take matters into my own hands (maybe once every 6 months). Right now I’m single, but was with my former boyfriend for seven years.
I’ve always reacted physically so that when I’m not involved in a romantic relationship, it is as if once my heart shuts down, so does my libido. But that’s all it is, it has nothing to do with thinking it is a sin or something, I just have no desire.
Yes.
Lies lies lies.
Maybe they don’t do it often, but they do it.
That’s pretty interesting. Exactly the opposite of my experience. Maybe I’m just weird though
It’s funny, I can go for a long time without a thought of sex, not even self service, and then when I fall in love, it’s as if my body wakes up and says “Hello??? Oh HELL yes, I remember this”.
I’d not had sex of any kind for about three years when I met my former boyfriend. For seven years and even on and off after we broke up we had a sizzling FREQUENT sex life.
Maybe those girls you dated were just exceptions? Or maybe they lied about it? Or, I could be the oddball exception.
Aha…Okay, I got fooled by the verbiage.
I’m thinking the “DO” in do you masturbate is present tense and means currently. So when someone asks me " do you?" my answer is no because I don’t. Not currently and not for about the last year.
If you want to know who has EVER masturbated you should ask a more open question “do you now, or have you ever”…to which I agree, I doubt that anyone has NEVER masturbated. Sheesh, as someone else mentioned the Kinsey report, or Masters and Johnson, even babies and children self stimulate even if they don’t “go all the way” or completely understand it.
Why do you want to know?
Do you need to watch?
Is it any of your business?
Are you paying me for this information?
Is this the sort of thing you usually get paid to talk about :dubious: ?
Well, since you’re already painting anybody who says he/she doesn’t masturbate as either mentally abnormal, pathologically frigid, or a liar, I doubt you’re going to get many people posting in this thread honestly trying to convince you differently.
Without going into it, I know for a fact that not everyone who claims not to masturbate is a liar or mentally abnormal, and may very well have a strong sex drive, that he/she satisfies with interaction with other people.
Your mouth says “no” but your hand says “yes.”
Well, maybe it’s a matter of definition. I know that for years I simply fantasized to orgasm. I never used my hands or other implements because it wasn’t necessary. Perhaps some women say they don’t “masturbate” because they don’t use any tools.

Your mouth says “no” but your hand says “yes.”
My mouth would say “yes” too, but I’m not from Nantucket.

Maybe not masturbating was even more common than I thought. Oh, and I forgot, let me pipe in here with another ancedote: my first serious girlfriend, never masturbated.
Part of the whole neuroticism/weirdness package that made me break up with her.
Perhaps some women say they don’t “masturbate” because they don’t use any tools.
That’s put in funny way to me. I was thinking of masturbation as something you do primarily with your hands, especially since I am a man and don’t require anything else, but it’s still the same act with or without a vibrator so I can’t see any reason why anybody would deny the act because of an “accomplice” =)…whatever’s involved in the outcome is not important, just the outcome
Over the years, I’ve dated a few girls and women who said they didn’t masturbate. Maybe it’s a coincidence, but each of these girls / women were members of the Catholic church. Is there a correlation?
WOOOOOOO! I’m lying like a mother fuck!