I have permission to have an affair

[Bippy_the_Beardless]

@ivylass

Not hardly.

Look, I know you guys don’t know me except for what I post here, but trust me, I know my husband. There is NO way in hell he would ever entertain such a suggestion.

He was floored, to say the least.

So he said it something like 'Could you beleive this Doctor’s nerve, he actually told me to tell you that it is allright for you to have an affair!"

I would think then a complaint letter to the doctor about what he said would be in order, as well as serious consideration of finding a different doctor. As it clearly ewasn’t the case of your husband bringing up the issues with the doctor, but instead the doctor suggesting something innapropriate before fully understanding the situation.

[ivylass]

@Mama Zappa

Would something like a TENS unit or implantable morphine pump be at all useful?

He has an implanted morphine pump.

@Bippy the Beardless

So he said it something like 'Could you beleive this Doctor’s nerve, he actually told me to tell you that it is allright for you to have an affair!"

Yes, that was his reaction.

[Agonist]

It could be Ivylad’s doctor is polyamorous, or at least knows people who are.

It doesn’t really seem very professional to suggest it, however. It’s like your dentist giving you financial advice, or something.

[ivylass]

@Agonist

It could be Ivylad’s doctor is polyamorous, or at least knows people who are.

We have a sneaking suspicion he might be. He talked about a vacation where he went to Amsterdam while his wife went to Spain. I thought that a little odd, to say the least.