Welcome the the Evil World of Commercialization of Our Children. It sucks beyond measure. And yeah, we had Commercialism when we were kids, but it wasn’t 24/7 of Cartoon Network/ Nickelodean and Playstation, et al.) It was different back then. Somehow.
I boycot Toys R Us (since at least 95, prolly since the late 80’s.) for having a soulless store that has robbed children of their childhood and pushed them directly into consumer driven zombies of Craptacular kiddie films and shows.
I heartily recommend finding a local independent toy store ( book stores too) and treat yourself to a real experience. You will find ones that are OK. Some that are Great and one that will blow you out of the water with fantastically fun stuff you’ve never heard of and you’d love to get as a present. The majority of Indy toystores make their money from Late October until after Christmas. The rest of the year it is a famine.
[Sidebar: There is a doper, whom I forget, who owns a toystore somewheres - Atlanta area? - . If you are still on board, I lost all my bookmarks and don’t have yours anymore. Email me, please![/sidebar]
Until you find one to adore and love and promise to *cherish and support **Forever ***, I humble suggest:
hearthsong Already suggested, great toys.
Magic Cabin outstanding stuff for the infant - 7 years of age with a narrow selection of just a bit older than 8 or 9. I love their stuff and the illustrations in their catalogs. ( I cut them out for my daughter to paste willynilly all over paper.)
Buy two of these for all out Ping Pong Ball Warfare! You know you want too!
The Toy Boat You can start your own regatta or Armada.
Kappla Blocks which are immensely fun and work with with the aboveformentioned ping pong ball catapult in destroying your enemies castle. ( You will need to pick up a couple of Papo or Schleich figures for full out battle. To say I’ve invested more money in these figures than my IRA in the last 8 years would be an understatement.)
Fun Again Games Board games, and not just the run of the mill stuff that is at every Kmart/Walmart/Megastore.
Games By James More games. Puzzles and stuff.
Puzzleusa great selection of puzzles.
Bruno Faidutti (board game reviewer. ) You will get lost in his site wandering around reading about games you’ve never heard of and now Must Have!!111!!. Two languages: english and frenchie.
Chinaberry Mostly books. Few games and delights for kids and adults. To say ** I (heart) Chinaberry **would be a modest understatement. They changed everything about parenting for me. But, I’ll spare you the Odes To Chinaberry. This time. Make sure you check out their audio collection -especially Jim Weiss - I have nearly all his stuff. He is an awesome story teller, right up there with Jim Dale, of Harry Potter Audio fame.
Front Porch Classics I’ve seen these rather expensive, but not cheaply made, games at bookstores and have liked what I’ve seen. The prices are prohibitive, to a tightwad like me, but they do appear on Ebay sometimes.
Zebra Hall Toys hard to find (expensive) but oh-so-cute european toys or $ toys. Their stuffed aminals are so SQUEEEEEE!
Rosie Hippo Their catalog is B&W, the website is a bit of a nightmare to navigate, but they are a wonderful supplier of natural baby-kid stuff for those who are into the Waldorf-y-Natural Child-Let kids be kids way ( as is Magic Cabin, Chinaberry.)
Vermont Country Store has nostolgia toys and stuff for granny. I love this catalog ( yet have never ordered from it.)
Live and Learn Kinda hard to navigate it, but great, great toys all done according to age range.
Young Explorers Good stuff for all ages.
Highlights Solid stuff from the Magazine that gave us Goofus and Gallant.
Doll Hospital and Toy Soldier Shop This is the toy store that I spent loads of hours in when I was a kid ( my best friend lived down the street and we hung out inside, gaping at everything. And the store was tiny then. Now…its fantabulously great!) The site blows chunks, however. Sorry. Also, if you have a treasured Dollie that is worse for wear, send her here. They are The Doll Doctors.
Two board games that are very popular here at Chateau Ujest are: **Sequence **and Pente. The first is at every Major Store and indy toy store Where you will buy it, right? the second is out of print but available on Ebay for an average of about $10 plus shipping. My 8 year old routinely kicks my ass in Pente
Back to Basics Toys If you cannot find anything you wanted as a kid in here or want in here now, you have so soul and I wash my hands of you and weep for your neices and nephews.
Some Ebay Sellers I’ve put on my favorite seller’s lists
Charis Games and Discgolf. Jandbcards indy games
Lilprinceohance
My Fun Family Store A family toy store.
Yardgames Australia Outdoors and Xlarge games like XL chess ( I want set!)
. One day, when I win the lottery, I’m buying a bunch o these. and then watch the kids all bounce around the yard.
Remember, kids want what they see on TV. You, my friend, are their portal to the Outside World. Lucky You!
You have to not only buy them a cool gift that will be deemed as a Classic by them when they are old farts ( in their 20’s) but you have to sit down with them and show them patiently why this game is so much fun.* It is about bonding and telling stories. * Especially stories involving you and their parental unit that you are related too and how that parental unit always ran over your doggie piece from Monopoly with the Race Car because he was a Douchecough…being Not Nice.
Kids love stuff like that.
Have fun!
If you have any questions, just email me.