I guess I could file this under “rude assumptions/prejudices I wasn’t aware I had.” At least to some extent. Four weeks ago I moved out of Boston and into Cedar Rapids, Iowa. I grew up on a farm in Illinois, so I figured I knew what I was getting into. But I’d been separated from my hayseed roots for quite some time, having lived in Downtown Chicago, NYC, and Boston (the latter for the past 8 years). I figured it might be a bit of a culture shock.
So, I took a deep breath and reminded myself to keep my liberal political opinions to myself, dress down, not expect too much in the way of entertainment. I just KNEW I was headed for a sea of conservative, closed-minded, white faces. I thought I could fit in, I just thought I’d have to get used to it.
How stupid was I? These people are just like me. I mean, of COURSE they are, why would they be any different? Anyone who I’ve heard express a political opinion has been quite liberal and extremely open-minded. Everyone I work with is very educated, most more than I am (I only have one degree). Sure, Iowa is pretty much a caucasian state but the giant international company I work for draws people from all cultures, all over the world.
On top of that, everyone has helped us out with a really rushed and messy move, giving us rides, buying us lunch, sending phone numbers of people who can help my husband get work, and so on.
And as far as entertainment goes, we do the same stuff here that we did in Boston: go to work, come home, watch tv, read and knit, hang out in the park (okay, we have a much nicer park here, but still) then go to bed and get up and do it all over. We hardly spend our time out clubbing or going to gallery openings or shopping on Newbury Street.
Oh, and did I mention that everything here is DIRT CHEAP? We’re now paying a third of the housing cost that we had in Boston. No, I’m serious…a THIRD. Groceries are cheaper, beer is $2.00 a pint, movies are $5.50 and you can fill your trunk with stuff from the farmer’s market for nine bucks (yeah, that’s an exaggeration, but it IS really inexpensive).
Okay, so I AM a little overdressed in the office. But that just means more people here tell me how nice I look. We’re surrounded by wide open green spaces and we don’t have to pay $30 to park. Hurrah! Iowa rocks!