Idle curiosity, I suppose. Don’t you wonder why the OP allowed a man she knew was a bum to impregnate her? Would you allow a man you knew was a bum to impregnate you?
I’m not trying to say anything. I simply asked a question (to which, I might add, I’ve not yet received an answer).
Squalor? What a silly accusation. I have said no such thing.