[Well, at least the discussion has become a little more reasonable in here… But really, attacks on people’s grammar? That’s well known as one of the most childish rebukes possible in an internet discussion.]
First off, I’d like to apologize to TexasSpur since the last comment of my previous post was rather rude. I should have just asked for a cite. But I was in a bad mood for other reasons, which is never a good time to post.
I have my own personal views on the practices of the military academies, both good and bad. I think they are less likely to produce an officer ill-prepared for active duty, which can be a problem with ROTC (which is my track). They are also more likely, IMHO, to produce the “Dictator Butter Bars.” But all kinds of officers can come from all commissioning sources, and painting with a broad brush is never fair.
When cadets are training other cadets, you face a greater problem of abuse because the trainers are often only shortly removed from being a trainee. They aren’t professional instructors, and are more apt to go overboard. I was recently involved in a ROTC training environment, and officer supervision and guidance was thorough and constant.
I’ve read through the OP a few times, and it still doesn’t seem like anything too shocking, and not really something that should cause a person to cry. It’s at too harsh a level to be accepted in the programs I was in (prohibitions on swearing and anything that might be belittling), but nothing I wouldn’t expect from an academy/corps environment. Whether that’s a good or bad attitude, well…it’s not how I’d run things, but that’s just me. Now the abuses of training mentioned by TexasSpur are the kinds of things that make my blood boil. Believe me, it bothers military members more than anyone.
The important thing stressed in the program I was recently involved in is that respect remains key throughout. And when it ends, all the cadets are equals. Yes, there is still a chain of command, but our tradition was to wake them up with loud music as usual, but be standing outside their doors in civilian clothes and continually correct them until they used our first names and not Cadet/Rank/Last Name. And then there was breakfast and an ultimate frisbee game.
And any LT who hits active duty without understanding that he must show the utmost respect to the enlisted troops doesn’t deserve his or her bars. And it happens, I’ve heard the stories. Luckily, an NCO usually puts them in their place. Fast.