So here’s the story. I meet this great guy. I fall head over heels for him the first time I talked to him. He told me that he is in the Army National Guard, and would be deployed in a little over a month. So I figure, ok, well, no way I’m getting into a serious realtionship with this guy, he’s leaving so soon. But we can hang out, seems like a fun guy, why not? A few days later we’ve said those three little words, and are spending every moment together that we can untill the day he leaves.
I love this man more than anything. But the distance, infrequent contact, and stress of both our daily lives are throwing me for a loop. He’s been gone for about 2 1/2 months. He’ll be gone for a year. We’ve been fighting alot lately, but it can mostly be attributed to the stress. I miss him so much. Sometimes I dont know how I’ll make it to when he comes back.
Have any of you been thru this before? How can I be supportive of him, without neglecting my own feelings of missing him desperatly? I hope this gets easier soon sigh.