I pit AMOR -- specifically, the 19-yr.-old variety.

Relax, maybe he’s obsessing over the gingerbread house he’s going to build you. Seriously, you’ll live for another 6 hours if he doesn’t call you. After 6:00 AM? Call 911.

I’m all for giving him the benefit of the doubt but-> what Cerri said. Unless the mother totally forgot, he’s avoiding you. He could be going through the same thing as you- wants to talk but just nervous. But you made the first move- it seems more than once.

Onthe other hand maybe you’ll get the best of both worlds. Perhaps his time away allowed him to realize he is gay. Then you can break up with him and have wild young fun AND form a life long relationship with him. Just like “Will&Grace”, what fun. :slight_smile:

No update?

I personally would try one more time after Christmas before writing him off completely. With the holidays, you never know what might have happened that affected his behavior. Yeah, he should have still made an effort even if he was busy, but so many times guys that age can be flaky without meaning any harm by it.
Whatever happens, I’m sure it will turn out for the best. :slight_smile:

Six days and no call – I think I can consider myself well and thoroughly blown off.

In which case, I hereby redirect my pitting from AMOR to MENFOLK. All of them, even the good-looking, smart, and funny ones. They are stupid and insensitive, and they smell.

Except for Jon Stewart, he can hang around for a while.

– In any case, now I’m determining whether to sacrifice my pride on the altar of infatuation and call him one more time before I go back to school next week, hoping that maybe somehow both messages went astray, or to toss my hair and wash him out of it. Ha! As if it’s as easy as that.

Screw him; it’s his loss.

Look at it this way: Which is more likely to be an unpleasant memory: calling him again and getting blown off again? Or regretting not calling him because he might possibly have reciprocated?

Gingerbread houses, indeed.

See? SEE? THIS is what happens when you call back. Married and pregnant!

Well, I don’t know for sure about the married part, but pregnant, certainly!

Just as well he didn’t call back. Or maybe… he’s reading this thread right now!

Good luck, howsomeever it turns out. Plenty of fish in the sea and all that.