I’m gonna post in ATMB about this, but accusing someone of gaslighting you is an accusing of a specific kind of nasty lying. It’s wholly inappropriate for GD.
But it’s appropriate here, which is why I’m responding here. I don’t consider you an honest poster. I don’t think you’re aware of your dishonesty; I think you lie to yourself best of all; but your posts here show a remarkable lack of dedication to honesty. So your condescending criticisms of me don’t really land.
If you want a constructive conversation, instead of telling me to start by pointing out how broad a brush you’re using, you should start by using a less broad brush yourself. It’s fucking bonkers to suggest otherwise.