I want to be an aikidoka

This evening, I took the first step into a brand new world. Just as the first monsoon of the season started drenching the streets in wind-driven rain, I arrived at the dojo I’d been researching.

I was half an hour early, and there were a couple of guys already stretching out, working on moves, and talking about stuff I didn’t understand at all. I was greeted by a really nice guy, one of the assistant instructors, who answered all of my questions thoughtfully and in detail. I’ve been doing research on different martial arts forms for a while now, and have settled on aikido as being the one that interests me most. (Of course, I dug up all the old martial arts threads off the boards. What a wealth of information this place is…).

The senior instructor wasn’t there tonight, but I was reassured that he teaches most classes, including tomorrow’s, so I’ll stop by then to meet him. The class size varies between 5 and 12 people, mixed skill levels. The fees seem reasonable, at $55 per month; there are potentially eight hours a week of classes which would fit into my schedule. Some weapons training is involved; what seemed like a good proportion of philosophy; no sparring, no competition.

I watched the class. A lot of emphasis was put on warmups, including some interesting and difficult-looking exercises, some of which seemed new to some of the class; looks like they put a lot of variation into their routines. The training portion of the class impressed me as well. A careful demonstration and explanation of a maneuver, followed by paired-off practice. Each pair of people would try it out on each other, while the instructor kept a careful eye out and offered suggestion, correction, and encouragement, in a friendly but authoritative way. There seemed to be a lot of consideration given to the more inexperienced people, in terms of taking it easy and going slow with them.

The moment that sold me, though, was when the big buzzcut blackbelt, who I’d seen throwing another guy around effortlessly, came off the mat just before class started, and offered to answer any questions I had. What impressed me most, though, was that he had a huge, completely goofy grin.

They offer an introductory course, which includes three 45-minute individual lessons with an assistant instructor and a basic gi, for $35. I signed up (tentatively; I still want to meet the instructor), and am starting it on Monday.

They seem like good people.

So, my question is; any advice? Should I start stretching out now, just to avoid some of the inevitable pain that’s coming up? Anything I should ask before committing to this dojo?

I’m a 36-year-old out-of-shape computer geek, and this is all totally new to me. I’ve never studied a martial art before, and any mistakes you could help me to avoid would be seriously appreciated.

I know a 22 year-old out-of-shape (according to him) computer geek who dabbled in aikido and he enjoyed it immensely.

I think it is important to have a hobby (especially one that you can use to impress men :wink: ). I vote stretch now and commit to the dojo.

44 year old mainframe computer geek and one-time san-kyu judoka here. Go with this dojo. It sounds like a good fit. You sound like you’ll enjoy it, they sound like they’ll work hard to make it work for you, and you may make some great friends. Sounds like a win-win to me!

And if it doesn’t work, you’re only out some time and a few dollars, and you get to keep the gi as a great parting gift!

MrV,
Go slow at first and try to get a flow. Listen to your body. Have fun. You have the ka down already…

Ralf - didn’t want to go for the dan? So close…

I know, I kick myself for not staying with it sometimes. Especially when I ran across one of the sandan’s a year ago. It brought back old times, watching him run his own class. Smelling the sweat, hearing the japanese, the slaps on tatami. I’d have to start from ro-kyu again, I think. It’s been a long, long time!

Hejumi!

Ahhhh, Aikido. You’ll love it. Me? I’m a 25-year-old cube farm working girl.

As for advice, there’s no harm in starting to stretch now. You will be taught the proper ways to limber up before each class, and sensei will lead stretching at the beginning of each class. Also, pay close attention to the etiquette of the dojo. A shrine to O Sensei will be set up somewhere near the main floor, and the rule is that you bow to O Sensei when you enter the door and before stepping onto the mat. You will also need to bow before stepping off the mat and before leaving the room, always facing the shrine, as a gesture of respect. Typically you will also bow to your instructor and each of your class mates before beginning class and before leaving (you also bow to your partner after each exercise).

Here is a site my friend built for our dojo. There are some great links off it to learn more about Aikido, if you want to bone up before you start.
http://www.prairie-aikikai.com/

Enjoy! You’ll have a blast.

A long time ago I wanted to be an Okidata, but my printing was horrible.

Now I just want to be Okey-dokey. :smiley:

Best to you, enjoy. I did the Martial Arts thing many years ago and taught a self defense course on campus. I should get back into it; I’m way out of shape.

The place you describe has all the hallmarks of a really good dojo, and the fees are very reasonable. One of my main considerations when looking at a school is the question “Do these people take themselves too seriously?” The goofy grin is a good sign.

By all means, get into it–your description really made me miss my arnis classes. If you start stretching and warming up on your own, though, do so very carefully. You can hurt yourself if you do it wrong–pulled muscles are no fun at all.

General advice: Stay loose and relaxed, don’t use muscle where finesse will do, focus your movements on your center of gravity (either pivoting around it or moving it laterally), and if a movement feels awkward try to figure out why. Most importantly, have fun.

Thanks for all your great input and encouragement. I’m pretty excited about this…

I went back to the dojo yesterday to meet the sensei and watch another class. The sensei looked like the lawyer you really want to have on your side; friendly, dignified, with a patient demeanor and neatly combed gray hair. I talked with him for a few minutes before class, and went on to observe the same sort of consideration, patient instruction, and dazzling skill displays I’d seen the day before. I like this place.

I also asked if I could trade up on the basic gi they offer with the starting course; I figure that the time I’ll most need a heavier uniform is right when I’m starting out. No problem.

But now, I have to ask a question which I couldn’t find a diplomatic way to ask when I was at the dojo, and wasn’t able to find in any of the FAQ’s…

What do you wear under the gi? Just briefs, or is a jock called for?

Inquiring minds want to know.

You probably want to invest in a cup, or at least a little extra support, if you wont be sparring, a cup wont be too important, I just wore underware, its not like a kilt.

This Saturday morning, I stepped out onto the mat at the dojo, after putting in over sixty hours of practice in just over three months, and ran through a series of aikido moves that just weeks ago would have baffled me completely. When I walked off the mat, later on that day, I’d earned my yellow belt; 5th kyu.

I’ve noticed that a lot of threads like this one die off without anyone knowing what happened, and whether things worked out, so I thought I’d let you know that I’m enjoying the heck out of aikido classes. Getting to this rank (rank beginner, in layman’s terms) has been a blast; learning how to roll, how to dive and roll, how to perform all these maneuvers that I never thought I’d be able to get down, all of it has been amazingly fun.

It’s only been a few months, but already I’m stronger, have more endurance and balance, and much more flexibility. I’d still be useless in any kind of real fight, of course, but I knew it took years to learn that when I signed up. The benefits, so far, have been astonishing.

I wanted to thank everyone who contributed to this thread, and to my decision to give this a shot. I hope that I can make aikido a part of my life for years to come.

And tonight, I get to do class in my stiff new bright yellow belt. It feels good.

Speaking as a out-of-shape computer geek who started taking martial arts classes in his 30’s, I say that’s outstanding. Keep it up, and keep us posted.

Congrats, V!

I did a year or so of kung fu around my senior year in high school and it was fabulous experience. I remember how good that new belt feels.

I love the idea that you’ve learned how to roll on the floor. Care to teach me? :cool: