Not his own body, obviously. 
I have her number. Should I text her? Should I thank her for an interesting evening?
I can’t believe I’m on the asking end of one of these kinds of threads.
Text her or not? I’m so tempted.
If you don’t text her, nothing will happen. If you text her something might happen. It could be something good. It could be something bad.
I say faint heart never won fair maiden.
I just called her.
We’re gonna get together one on one.
I’m shaking like Michael J fox in a freezer.
You realise after this build up that an ongoing blow by blow account will be expected?
That, my friend, took guts.
I wish you well.
High five! 
One down, two to go, Leaffan…
I’ve had sex with a few of my friends (while in a relationship) and it has only strengthened the friendship, if it had any effect at all.
That being said, oddly, I do really only like sexy times with people I am romantically inclined towards. But my now ex-boyfriend and I were in an experimental phase for a while (one of them involved my ex before him, if you can believe it), and we had a lot of fun and nobody got hurt and the sex was nice.
But I’m totally sympathetic to the idea that you know what you like and what you don’t like, and if you are pretty damn sure you’re not going to like an orgy, then, no need to “give it a try” or “experiment.” If you are a little curious though, definitely give it a go. And doing it with friends, I think, is better and easier than doing it with complete strangers.
Ontario, Canada. It must be there cold weather…
While I agree that sometimes you have to push yourself out of your comfort zone once in a while, you also shouldn’t feel obligated to participate in things you don’t want to do. They asked politely, you declined politely, nobody’s feelings were hurt - it sounds like a perfectly reasonable situation. And if you meet a nice lady, why not see where it goes? Maybe you decide there’s no chemistry and nothing happens, maybe you hook up, maybe it turns into something bigger - jitters aside, it sounds like you’re doing the right thing for you. Good luck!
Well Leaffan, good on you for calling her, very proud of you for taking that step.
But you know of course that I’ll want all the details on May 11th 
And so, she just emailed me, which is how I left things last week. I said, “If you want to get together, I’m interested, and here’s my email address.”
So, she is, and she did, and now I have to decide if I really want to do this. I’m not sure any more. I’m not sure why I’m so apprehensive. Performance anxiety perhaps, given the history?
Don’t know what to do now…
ETA: Her sentence structure isn’t too great. I may have to rethink this.
Ah come on excuses excuses. Nothing is stopping for going for dinner or a drink and both and see where it leads. It’s usually better when it’s unplanned (no time for performance anxiety)!
If she ends her sentences in a proposition, try not to be too critical.
I would be leery of what to expect myself. I’ve always been of the opinion that swingers got bored with regular sex and are always looking for something new and different.
But in your favor I would expect her to be very frank with discussing the topic. You should feel comfortable throwing everything on the table you wish to know about.
FYI, I was invited to a 3-way once but only got a bowl of spaghetti with chili and some cheese.
And if it wasn’t for post number 3, I would have had no clue what you were talking about.
ewwww, I would never participate with a group of people if it involved raw onions.
Well then, good news! You can substitute beans for the onions in a 4-way, if you want.
I second this, and know from personal experience that this could make life unpredictably complicated. I started dating as soon as I became separated but I soon realized that the situation with my then-not-quite-yet-ex-wife was anything but neatly resolved. Dating is kind of at odds with trying to reconcile a marriage, and probably not entirely fair to the women you date. Are you separated because there is no hope of reconciliation? Are there children involved? Does the petite, smart, pretty cougar know you are separated but still married?
However, I will hasten to add that this lady could be just interested in sex, given the propensity for group sex and a “passionate kiss” just after she met you.
In either case, proceed with caution. 