Yeah, I’d rather concentrate on one or the other.
This says it perfectly for me. I have the added issue that I’m not a big fan of receiving anyway. I like to give and then once I’ve given we can move on to other stuff like intercourse.
Reminds me of the old joke. “Want to do a 69?”, “Nah, lets do a 68, you go down on me and I’ll owe you one.”
Or maybe it was post #26 that reminded you? 
Or a light man and a strong enough girl.
I’m 5’4", so I’m with you, Opal. (Except that one time…)
I like that it puts the sensitive head of my penis against her tongue , it feels way better than the traditional way of tongue on the underside and top of her mouth on the gland side.
I also like that she can control the intensity of her clitoral stimulation, maybe she is fairly sensitive to direct stimulation at first and then as she gets into it she can press down to your mouth a little harder.
I also like the view and the feeling of her thighs around my head.
For this, she can also just sit on your face.
Oops. :smack:
My girlfriend and I are both really keen on performing oral sex, so this is a fantastic way to indulge together. It’s almost never done to orgasm though - it’s more of a way to simultaneously enjoy acts that we usually do in turns. And since we aren’t necessarily working to ignite the fireworks, we can be a little more creative in the way we manipulate each other. Which usually results in one of us taking a moment to enjoy something and then getting right back to it. Definitely a “lingering” position for us.
Yes.
Wow, this subject was brought up with new girlfriend on ph, what a coincidence to see this topic. Totally 100% agree with the OP.
It may be a matter of comparing apples to oranges, though. Yes, two barbers can’t cut each other’s hair at the same time, but ping pong is more fun with a partner than against a backboard.
I’ve got $5.00 that says you are wrong. Don’t trust me? I’ll let you pick who holds the cash. So. . .we on?
My partner loves giving and not taking. I love taking and not giving (believe me, I give in many other ways). So neither “69” nor “take turns” is an option for us.
This. Although I still like it, but its not my preference.
Chinese man asks his wife…“How about a little 69?”
She says…“Beef and broccoli again?”
Mrs. and I like 77 better.
You get eight more that way!
For us it’s not a means to an end, but a position where we can both give pleasure to the other for a while but generally not come from it. If we’re trying to get one done in the morning before the kids wake up, we don’t attempt it. But when we have all the time in the world and no sudden surprises from the kids to worry about, it’s part of the regular repertoire. My wife does sometimes come that way, but usually not. It does allow me to easily access her ass, which is sometimes that little something extra that puts her over the edge. I like it because she can take me deeper in her throat in this position than she can if she approaches me from the other direction- I guess it’s the shape of my dick, or something. I don’t think I’ve ever come in this position, but that’s not really the goal.
I like 69 a lot but my gf doesn’t, for the reason cited by the OP. She still indulges me once in a while so it’s all good.
Yeah, that’s it.
What a nice way to waste a few hours, alternating, then simultaneous, repeat.
I love it, usually with me on the bottom. It doesn’t really matter to me if it leads to orgasm or not, there’s plenty of time for that. I love the sensation of both of us being to busy pleasuring the other to do anything else though. It’s intense.