This question is addressed largely at straights (hard to imagine gays and lesbians saying no), and was inspired by comments on other gender-change questions. If you could switch bodies with your SO, would you have sex with yourself? Yeah, yeah, yeah, I know, you’re not attracted to your own gender. But consider: you know all your bodies desires and hot spots…and your SO knows hers/his, so in having sex with each other there is an enormous potential for learning. For example, you could do stuff to your girlfriend (now you) that would help her understand what you really want. You could even do stuff that you don’t like, so as to help her understand how you feel about stuff that she does. What say all?
It sounds like a fun and exotic thing to try now but it’s just wishful thinking. I don’t think I could really do it, unless a) I were using my SO’s sexual orientation as well as her body, and b) it was dark and we didn’t say anything.
My ex-wife discussed this with me once. She thought it was a great idea and wished that every couple could give it a try. You could get to know what works and what doesn’t and be a better lover because of it.
If I switched bodies with my SO and then we had sex I’d still be having sex with my SO, not with myself. If I could try gender reversal like that just once I probably would though.
i think i’d end up spending so much time looking in the mirror i’d completely forget i exist. i’m not fat, i’m actually pretty small, but my bf has 2% body fat and just the idea of having that would be better then sex. i suppose once i got over myself i’d give it a try, but really, i’m not sure why he doesn’t just masturbate all the time anyway…
100 pounds ago, my answer would be “NO!!”, but now that I’m 107 pounds, sure. It’s really sad that I would discriminate against myself. I’ll never rag on men for doing the same thing anymore.
Yes, absolutely. Then I’d let myself know at great length what an absolutely incredible lover I am, draft a short document attesting to my amazing sexual prowess, sign it and get it notarized in front of as many witnesses as I could dig up on short notice.