I'm deployed. Someone 'challenges' my vote. How can I find out?

My fiancee sent me this link: here which strikes a serious nerve.

I’ve filed absentee ballots for the past seven (eight in December) years through my home state because I’m active duty and/or have been deployed overseas during elections. Given my situations, how can I account for my vote–whether it was counted or not?

I know for whom I voted, but can I find out wether or not my vote was counted?

Tripler
FTR: Back in '00, I actually voted for Pat Paulsen.