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Originally posted by TaxGuy
Geez, not to take a big shit in the middle of this thread or anything, but why do some of you folks absolutely revel in being poor? You wear your inability to afford things like a badge of honor, fer chrissakes!
I’m not saying you have to be all embarrassed or anything if you can’t afford something, but why do you gloat about it? You think it’s cool to be poor or something?
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It IS fun to scout garage sales and thrift stores and finding that $200 designer dress that not only has the tags still on, but that FITS and is the right color and makes you look hot for just $25?
Hell, it’s like the thrill of the hunt. Very fun, VERY cool, makes you feel competent, okay about your “poorness” or perceived poorness. All sorts of good stuff. It’s great to be proud of that kind of thrift and shopping ability.
However, at some point, you finally manage to become somewhat “okay” financially, okay NOT “it’s good to be…” but Okay enough to where you’re paying your bills and you CAN take care of yourself too.
I went through a long “poor as dirt” phase. After awhile, I got TRULY sick of cutting my own hair, and only buying clothes at K-mart, thrift stores, or having my taller teenage daughter give me hand me UPs that she got too big for.
It’s called “rank has it’s privileges”. This is why you WENT through that starving student phase. This is why you struggled for 5 years after your divorce getting back up on your feet.
It’s a reward for all that you did do (sheesh I sound like either an advertisement for the Army, or for Millertime :D).
And believe me, not a day goes by that I don’t thank GOD that I don’t have to waitress, and every time I get my hair cut, or buy a new pair of $40 dollar jeans, I have NOT forgotten what it took to get me there. So though I greatly enjoy these privileges, I don’t feel smug about them or take them for granted.
Anyway, just because some of us spend what seems like astronomical amounts on clothing etc, doesn’t mean we don’t know what it was like, nor does it mean that we don’t empathize or understand.