I found the “homosexuality, incest, …” topic with interest and would like to offer this:
No matter what your sexual orientation, what you fantasize about is entirely your business. It is neither right nor wrong.
(here comes the “however” part) HOWEVER, when you cross the line between fantasy and reality (and, in some cases, it’s a big fat line) you run the risk of, not only breaking the law, but risking your mental health.
I’ve heard on various talk radio shows, read in various studies about people who have a fantasy (sexual or otherwise) and attempt to live them out usually end up being greatly disappointed in the results. The imagination is a wonderful thing (except when it creates stuff like Teletubbies and Bryan Adams songs :)), but we have a tendendancy to ignore the reprecussions of our fantasies. Well, duh, if we thought the fantasy out completely, it wouldn’t be a fantasy then now, would it?
If you find yourself lusting after people (or things, I suppose) that aren’t morally, socially, or religiously correct, don’t punish yourself, but don’t try to turn those thoughts into actions. If you feel yourself starting to slip, GET HELP!!
Well, that’s my 3-cents worth (hey, inflation).
Thank you for reading (and agreeing with me, or possibly ripping me to shreds. Hey, I can take it)
“Sticks and stones may break my bones, so please don’t throw sticks and stones.”