It sucks that we were never accepted
and I want a Latina girlfriend but they hate us just like every other race does
Discuss.
I see roughly as many Indian guys with Western girls, as I do Indian girls with Western guys.
If they can do it, you’ll be able to.
is it just me, or does this board act as a magnet for self-hating indian men?
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I don’t see a factual question here.
Moving thread from General Questions to Mundane Pointless Stuff I Must Share (MPSIMS).
Self-pity is not a strong look on anyone.
Indians seems pretty well accepted in my part of the Western World (UK).
Although one thing I’ve noticed is that 2nd/3rd generation Indians in the UK tend to support the Indian cricket team when they play England. The same goes for other Asian sport fans such as Pakistanis and Sri Lankans. Many other people with immigrant parents/grandparents (such as myself) would support England when playing sport against our parents country. I think that shows an interesting cultural difference - although it’s not necessarily an explanation to your question.
Indian men (in America) actually outmarry a hell of a lot more than Indian women. Neither outmarries very much, compared to East Asians (which I suspect is a byproduct of religion, caste, etc.).
My anecdata agrees with the statistics here (though most of the younger Indians I know are either not particularly religious, or else Christian). Among the Indians in my extended family who were born in 1970 or later, most of them are dating/married to white women.
No. Suck it up and deal with it.
No, it’s probably just you she hates, and it’s not hard to see why. The racism evident in that post is your own.
Maybe if you saw her as a person? Used her own name when talking to her, instead of “Hey, mamacita, looking good!” or however you put it?
Do you want a specific Latina to be your girlfriend or do you just like the concept of a Latina girlfriend and aren’t picky about which one? Because we can make suggestions to help the former (Step1: Give up the self-pity), but the latter is kinda creepy.
The key question is this: Are you a nice guy?
'Cause if you are, you are doomed?
I’m pretty sure the OP is doomed in this quest whether or not he is a “nice guy.”
Maybe Mom and Dad can fix him up with a nice girl with good teeth and wide hips for ease of reproduction who goes to their church.
Yeah, women always find it attractive when a guy sees them as an object instead of an individual.
I understand there’s a town in California where a good proportion of the population is descended from Panjabi Sikh men and Mexican-American women.
How do you suppose that happened?
Cite?
Ordinarily, I don’t respond to demands for cites when I use deliberately vague terminology like “I understand” or “I heard” or “I read somewhere,” but I think this is what I am recalling — Punjabi Mexican Americans - Wikipedia. The city is Yuba City, California.
Wow, extremely cool link.