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For instance, and as an addendum to my above points, the Dutch tend to see the government as inept and yet as the one who “ought to do something about it”. At the same time, we don’t really, deeply believe in the strenght and rights of the individual either. I guess the Dutch attitude can be summed up as: “Both government and individuals can be inept, so we need to make sure they control each other and have a system of checks and balances”. The American attitude, if I see it correctly, is more convinced strengh lies in the individual. Or at least a belief that the individual should be strong and able to fight for himself, and if they don’t, that reeks of a moral failing.
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I’m not very sure myself what my point is if I combine this post with my previous one, though. I guess the Dutch value the right of biological parents to raise their kids just as highly as the USA does, even if that puts the child at risk. The difference then remains that the Dutch put a slightly less high value on the parental right to raise a kid according to the parents religion.
I’m not saying one is better then the other. It’s just cultural differences, and those are interesting if one wants to have an objective look at one’s own culture.
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Here’s how it looks to me having lived in both places: Both Americans and Dutch guys consider that the state has a responsibility to protect children in the final analysis. I think the primary cultural difference is that Dutch culture does not value methods of childrearing which place the child outside the larger culture. You can raise your kid as a contrarian without interference because the Dutch value their weirdos and outsiders and lone voices in the wilderness (see, Geert Wilders, lol) as also members of the social conversation.
They do not value raising your child not to take part in the social conversation.
Speaking broadly, Americans think being unable to think of something, failure to be resourceful, is a weakness which stinks of a moral failing; Dutch guys think that being unable or unwilling to recognize when you need help and ask for it, failure to take advantage of the resources available, is a weakness which stinks of a moral failing.
In the Savannah case you mention, my own sense is that the outcry is because the social workers had actual evidence that the mother was a threat to the child and disregarded it in the interest of what an american social worker would call family reunification.