Only one of the three actually missed her penalty shot–she kicked it over the goal. That can be considered a choke, but it happens sometimes. Even to the best players.
The other two shots were not misses at all. Rather, they were saved by the Japanese goalkeeper. One of those shots was not the very best of efforts, but it was on goal and the keeper just happened to guess correctly. The other save started with a fine shot, but the goalkeeper made an outstanding “skate save” by deflecting it with her foot even though she had jumped the wrong way. Just an outstanding save, not a choke by the USA shooter.
As for the regulation time and extra-time play the USA didn’t choke at all, They never built more than a one-goal lead, and the Japanese managed to find an equalizer after each of the USA’s two goals.
I’ve heard people say that the USA Women couldn’t finish. In the absolute sense, this is somewhat true if you consider finishing only to be actually putting the ball in the net.
To me however, a team that “can’t finish” is a team that can get the ball up to its strikers near the penalty area, but then the strikers either have a a horrible first touch (see: USA Men’s National Team) and/or there is not skillful support for the strikers once they receive the ball because the attacking midfielders have poor understanding of creating space and moving into space (see: USA Men’s National Team)
Poor finishing is when the midfielders have no better ideas than just booting the ball as far forward as they can to a striker who is all alone with 3 defenders marking him (see: USA Men’s National Team). Poor finishing is when most of your attacking players (defenders too) have poor passing and trapping ability so they lose chance after chance in scoring position because they simply can’t handle the ball well enough to create a good scoring opportunity (see: USA Men’s National Team).
None of those things happened to the USA Women in the World Cup final. They had excellent ball movement and positioning that the Japanese defenders had almost no answer for. The USA team got outstanding shots off but incredibly, they kept hitting the post or the crossbar. That’s not choking–that’s rotten luck.
Other than ONE of the penalty kick attempts, the USA Women absolutely did not choke. They played a very strong game and were beaten by a very savvy, industrious, and deserving Japanese side that totally earned the win.
Anyone who says that the American women choked is insulting both the Japanese and the American sides, and demonstrating a rather poor understanding of top-level international soccer.