I have mixed feelings about this.
My wife and I have discussed this before and
she has said that it is not cheating.
I testill tend to feel a bit guilty about it anyway. Even though we both enjoy talking abuot it in bed
FWIW, I look at it this way: if you’re doing something that you don’t want your SO to know about, there’s a good chance you shouldn’t be doing it.
I covered this one before under,
‘Are Internet Relationships Cheating?’
I would have preferred my husband to have cheated online or even on the phone. As it were,he did it in person,probably a hundred times.But he wasn’t purple.