Thank you, that was exactly my initial reaction.
But as has been mentioned, it is actually more likely to raise an eyebrow to hear that you are still hand cranking (or relying on fthe wonders of technology) every so often while in a committed coupleship. As if there weren’t times that one or the other of the parties is not up to it, or simply not there.
What is the right or wrong way with this, depends on each couple and the nature of both their physical relationship AND their comunication with each other.