Inspired by the recent masturbation thread and an opinion from a woman I know, I’ve decided to look like I have a one track mind and ask this question.
For you married dopers, or those within an analogous monogamous relationship, how do you feel about your partner were he/she to be solo masturbating? I’m not counting that sexual play that is part of usual couples sex.
The woman I know says that it selfish. She also considers it near-adultry if any fantisizing involved is about someone other than the usual live-in partner. (I’m trying to be very inclusive with this example. The real comment was that if the husband is jerking-off while fantisizing about someone other than his wife, then he is both being selfish - by denying the wife the potential opportunity for sex - and he is sort-of cheating on her since she is not the object of the fantasy.)
What do you think?