Is plastic surgery cheating?

Well played, sir. :slight_smile:

This is the oddest “how women will screw you over” thread we’ve had for some time.:smack:

This is a mantra of mine.

:confused: Why is that necessarily “cheating”? Suppose your partner doesn’t really care about seeing your “bare face”? If you like to wear makeup all the time and your partner’s cool with that, why should anybody else stigmatize it as “cheating”?

There are tons of people whose partners have never seen their natural hair color, either. That is likewise not “cheating”.

I think a (small) part of your problem here may be that you’re mixing up “cheating” with “lying”. Yes, if you say to a partner “It’s important to me for both people in a relationship to be 100% honest with each other, and I would like to know if you had plastic surgery” and they lie to you about it, that’s a problem. But just because they don’t volunteer the information doesn’t mean they’re “cheating”.

Wait, tell me more about this “true genetic makeup”…? What does that even mean?

Perhaps in the case of celebrities it is in the same way that steroids are in bodybuilders and other sports or photoshopping magazine images does. It raises the general standard of to truely unattainable levels which forces anyone who wants to succeed to go to more and more extreme measures to meet those standards in a non ending cycle.