Its just my observation that nobody is doing it anymore. The days of singing “Camptown Races” and “Row Row row your boat” around the campfire seem to be gone. Even in schools they seem to have droped general signing and if you ask many young people today they hardly kow any tunes.
I think people are less likely these days to do art or music themselves, there seems to be an idea that if you aren’t “professional” you shouldn’t do such things. Sure, there used to be a lot of people who were crap at singing, but they enjoyed themselves and had fun. These days, they’re told to shut up and someone puts on commercial music.
This doesn’t ring true to me. One of the first things my toddler learned at daycare was “Ring Around the Rosie”. Songs are a part of their daily activities.
They held packed houses of singalongs to Frozen where I am, so I expect it’s nationwide. The songs are different, but it still occurs.
My variant of this question is, Do men still memorize all the lines to movies they love? It used to be Monty Python films (it’s been decades since I’ve heard a quote) so maybe now it’s Napoleon Dynamite, or Time Machine HotTub?
I’m guessing a better explanation than “kids just don’t do singalongs these days” is that you, as an older adult, are not exposed to activities where there would be sing-a-longing. Either that, or you don’t recognize contemporary sing-a-longs as the same kind of sing-a-longs you grew up with.
If kids aren’t learning songs in schools, it has less to do a decline in “sing-a-longs” and more to do with cutbacks to music education. But that’s nowhere universal.
Today at my yoga studio, the instructor had us do a “sing-a-long” to an ancient Hindu song. Not my cup of tea, but everyone else seemed to enjoy it.
Believe it or not, this is actually a big question in church circles. The conventional wisdom is that congregations don’t want to sing anymore, and the only music anyone will join in on are the old traditional hymns (even then they’re only sung by the old traditional members of the congregation.) Similarly, it’s getting harder and harder to get young people to join choirs, forcing many congregations to rely on professional musicians and making music less “worship” and more “performance.”
I see that in my church where they will be doing these worship songs and almost nobody sings. Then they start up “Amazing Grace” and suddenly the church is filled with voices.