I have a friend who subscribes to she male groups, could he gay?
Why don’t you ask him.
On second thoughts… does it matter?
I have a friend who does not subscribe to she male groups.
Could he not be gay?
My friend is engaged and planning to be married, and he has hidden this from his fiancé, I know them both for over the years, and the girl he is too marry has no idea he has been subscribing to these groups. How long this has been going on I personally do not know, but I do know his wife to be is a very good religious woman and this would be unacceptable in their relationship. I personally do not care if he is gay, but do you guys think that perhaps there may be a chance he is? And should he be hiding this from his wife to be? I cannot and will not say a word, its none of my business. He has been bragging to me about all the porn sites he goes to and I really do not want to know, it puts me in the middle of a lie and I feel uncomfortable. By the way he’s unemployed and his fiancé has a very good career, makes me suspect that he’s marrying her for her money. What do you think?
My husband and I are both as het as people come, but we have also both looked at some very strange areas of the Internet through sheer curiosity. (And “she-male” goes beyond typical homosexuality, for sure)
Yes, I agree, there seems to be some deception going on here.
But for all you know, your gal-friend has a secret kink of her own - which you don’t know about, because it’s secret. Or maybe not.
The point is, this isn’t your relationship.
If he’s been bragging in public about visiting porn sites, you might want to tell your friend “Hey, this guy brags about visiting e-porn sites – that doesn’t sound like something you’d go for.” but keep ALL speculation about his sexual orientation or practices to yourself.
As for being unemployed and “marrying her for her money” – that, too, is not something for you to get involved in speculating about. Particularly since you give so little information - is this a temporary state of affairs? If so, how is he surviving now? If your friend is aware of his jobless state and chooses to marry him anyway that is her business.
Yes, she may be making a mistake. People do make mistakes. But interferring with the choices of two adults is not something you should be doing, and will most likely change nothing while losing you a friendship. Doesn’t mean you have to approve - if she asks you what you think of the guy you are free to say he’s creepy or you don’t trust him - but trying to “save” your friend from this relationship would be out of line.
So, my question still remains the same, (after all if it were me in this relationship, I would question why he subscribes to those kind of sites) Just curious here thats all! What’s the likelyhood he is homosexual?
PS is this NORMAL behavior for all men? I’m bit naive here!!
She-males, or “chicks with dicks” as they are popularly known, do not often come up in the average male’s fantasy as far as I know. However, it is reasonably likely the average male has some sort of twisted fantasy he keeps even from his soon-to-be-betrothed. If all he does is masturbate over these pictures I’m sure wifey has nothing to worry about. Porn can in fact even be a stimulating factor in a couple’s sex life. I really have no idea what I’m talking about here, but I’m pretty sure what I’ve said was accurate enough.
I can assure you that his -wife -to-be would be very disturbed if she was aware of this. She’s a women middle 40’s, and vey old fashion. Like I said I have knowen them both for years, but only lately about the groom- to- be. To me it raisies “BIG RED FLAGS”. But sense I have never come across this kind of behavior before I am at a loss as to what’s Normal or not.
Not really any of your business, IMO.
After reading this post by susherrie, I strongly suspect that this thread constitutes another installment in the saga of Lovelorn LadyG. Somehow. Sock or proxy? I dunno.
Mind your own business.
Don’t feed the trolls.
Ummm… I think that it is hard for me to wrap my head around a man who brags to a female friend about all the net porn he indulges in. It is so hard I find your post difficult to believe. If it is true (the bragging) the marriage should be stopped, not because he is too perverse for his bride, but because he is too stupid to be allowed to procreate.
I think just because you like to look at something like shemales doesn’t make you gay. To each his own.
I have engaged in some incredibly frank discussions with platonic female friends about sex etc. While I’ve never “bragged” about my porn consumption, I have admitted that I view it. Allowing for some hyperbole on susherrie’s part, this doesn’t sound impossible.
This dude may just be someone who habitually offers TMI. Shut him down the nect time he starts bragging. What he gets off to is none of your business, and don’t let him make it yours.
I’ll chime in with all the others with a “none of your business” reply.
But…since you’re so set on getting an answer here, I’ll tell you what I think. What are the chances this man is gay? I’d say about the same chance that anyone is gay. Just because he subscribes to she-male porn sites is not an indication that he’s a homosexual. And, seeing as how he’s marrying a female, I would say that chances are, he’s probably a heterosexual.
I really hope that you’re not posing the same question to mutual friends of the couple. This is how rumors get started. And if people start gossiping that this man is gay…it will likely get back to him and cause him a great deal of pain. Tread lightly here.
My best advice is to drop it & let them live their own lives!
no not posing this question to anyone but here and from what I gather itsperfectly ok for a normal man to be interested in she males, as for me I would not marry any man who’s taste in sex were in scopeing out other men sexualy but what ever will be will be. End of Story. Each to their own.
no not posing this question to anyone but here and from what I gather its perfectly ok for a normal man to be interested in she males, as for me I would not marry any man who’s taste in sex were in scopeing out other men sexualy but what ever will be will be. End of Story. Each to their own.
no not posing this question to anyone but here and from what I gather its perfectly ok for a normal man to be interested in she males, as for me I would not marry any man who’s taste in sex were in scopeing out other men sexualy. Not once have I heard anything about the GREAT PAIN it will cost his-wife-to-be. but what ever will be will be. End of Story. Each to their own.