What makes you think they had the option of working or not?
I worked while going to school because it was the only way I could go to school, pay for my tuition and books, and still support myself. Even student loans won’t pay every expense.
My family was just the opposite of yours anyway. We were all told at an early age that if we wanted to go to school, we were going to have to learn to work hard, because school wasn’t free and we were responsible for it. And that wasn’t just because we were poor - it was our philosophy.
The idea being that working your own way through school means that you understand the value of your education and you don’t take it lightly, and that you learn through hard experience how much jobs suck when you don’t have a college degree. It also forces you to think hard about your faculty of choice and whether you will be able to find a career when you’re through. Working several years in a retail store or swinging an axe is a great motivator for college.
When I got out of high school, I didn’t have any money saved. So I had to go to work full-time for three years to save up money to go to college, and line up part time work while in school. That taught me a lesson about planning for the future.
We’re doing the same thing with our daughter. She’s 13, and she’s already had a paper route, and she’s excited to get a ‘real job’ next year, probably working weekends at a fast food place or something. She’s saving money for college, and we pretty much match everything she saves. We could easily afford to just send her, and if absolutely necessary we’ll pay what we have to, and if she takes student loans, we’ll pay them out the day she graduates so she can get a good start in life. If we see she’s working hard in school and a job is really a strain, we’ll just support her then and let her concentrate on her studies.
But she doesn’t need to know any of that. As far as she knows, college is the first thing you really have to prepare to be able to do on your own. So the idea of scholarships and bursaries starts to loom in importance, and she really works hard in school because she already knows what it would mean to her if she got significant educational aid.
So yes, I think working while in college (or at least to save enough for college beforehand) is perfectly rational.